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Poll: How do you give HJs?

67 replies

SprySeal · 16/05/2025 17:44

There was a recent post on how common is it to dislike sticky hands HJs. So how are most doing handjobs?

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GreenCrow · 19/05/2025 16:42

Yeah, seeing the finish while wearing one is fun, but I really fancy the gloves now too... you can tell it's Monday afternoon and my mind is wandering 😅

JJZ · 19/05/2025 17:09

SprySeal · 19/05/2025 16:22

We use condoms all the time for HJs. Too messy without and don’t know why more don’t use them. Have gloves but still requires having a towel ready for him to finish into

To me, using condoms would imply that it’s “dirty” and feel very clinical. I like the mess - a job well done 😂

Gymbunny2025 · 19/05/2025 17:14

GreenCrow · 19/05/2025 16:42

Yeah, seeing the finish while wearing one is fun, but I really fancy the gloves now too... you can tell it's Monday afternoon and my mind is wandering 😅

That’s what Monday afternoons are for 😂

DeadThing · 19/05/2025 20:25

Eye opening. Maybe it’s just me but if I offered my DP a wank (as a stand alone activity) and then threw him a condom or donned a pair of latex gloves he’d likely look at me like I’d lost my marbles 😂

yorkshireteabagman · 19/05/2025 22:01

I'm not sure there's anything less sexy, but we're all different

mnmnddddd · 20/05/2025 04:38

DeadThing · 19/05/2025 20:25

Eye opening. Maybe it’s just me but if I offered my DP a wank (as a stand alone activity) and then threw him a condom or donned a pair of latex gloves he’d likely look at me like I’d lost my marbles 😂

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He might ... but what if the latex gloves were elbow length and scarlet?

SprySeal · 20/05/2025 18:44

DeadThing · 19/05/2025 20:25

Eye opening. Maybe it’s just me but if I offered my DP a wank (as a stand alone activity) and then threw him a condom or donned a pair of latex gloves he’d likely look at me like I’d lost my marbles 😂

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Nothing wrong with giving him a wank instead of sex.

Many don’t give DH a wank because of the mess. If men had choice of a wank with a condom or no wank they would put on a condom right away

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JJZ · 20/05/2025 20:06

SprySeal · 20/05/2025 18:44

Nothing wrong with giving him a wank instead of sex.

Many don’t give DH a wank because of the mess. If men had choice of a wank with a condom or no wank they would put on a condom right away

Not mine; he’d rather not have a hand job if he had to wear a condom, but then there’s other things we do that he prefers so he wouldn’t be bothered in the slightest.

I think it’s nicer skin to skin anyway. A bit of mess can be cleaned up (or swallowed if you’re of that persuasion).

Catullus5 · 20/05/2025 20:43

mnmnddddd · 20/05/2025 04:38

He might ... but what if the latex gloves were elbow length and scarlet?

They might be quite affordable from a veterinarian supply shop!

mnmnddddd · 20/05/2025 20:51

Catullus5 · 20/05/2025 20:43

They might be quite affordable from a veterinarian supply shop!

In scarlet? I think you and I are going to very different vets.

Namechangedrunner · 20/05/2025 20:54

Disposable gloves here! I wear them for anything messy around the house too. However, I do have a box of black ones for the bedroom, so it isn’t too clinical. I also love the fact that after a HJ, I can just peel them off and we can then cuddle without me having to go and clean up in the bathroom.

Catullus5 · 20/05/2025 20:56

mnmnddddd · 20/05/2025 20:51

In scarlet? I think you and I are going to very different vets.

I would go to this one.

https://libidex.com/short-gloves-wrist-length-2.html

Or how about these? Only in black, unfortunately.

https://libidex.com/short-gloves-wrist-length-10.html

user1471798424 · 20/05/2025 23:31

Handjob with raw hand!

Can't get over the amount swallow 🙈 I'm 30 and get bring myself to do it 🙈🙈

StarlightLady · 21/05/2025 08:07

Although l won’t allow any man to ejaculate on me, l am not a lamppost, I must admit to being quite staggered by some of the comments here. Gloves? Condoms?

As l said upthread, l’m happy to swallow, but if a man wants a HJ he can find a quiet corner and do it himself.

mnmnddddd · 21/05/2025 13:48

StarlightLady · 21/05/2025 08:07

Although l won’t allow any man to ejaculate on me, l am not a lamppost, I must admit to being quite staggered by some of the comments here. Gloves? Condoms?

As l said upthread, l’m happy to swallow, but if a man wants a HJ he can find a quiet corner and do it himself.

How does that square with your need for foreplay? If a partner were to suggest you should find a quiet corner, how would you reply?

mnmnddddd · 21/05/2025 13:53

Catullus5 · 20/05/2025 20:56

I would go to this one.

https://libidex.com/short-gloves-wrist-length-2.html

Or how about these? Only in black, unfortunately.

https://libidex.com/short-gloves-wrist-length-10.html

I was thinking of something longer. Perhaps these?
https://www.catalystlatex.com/product-page/latex-seamless-opera-glove

JJZ · 21/05/2025 19:35

Namechangedrunner · 20/05/2025 20:54

Disposable gloves here! I wear them for anything messy around the house too. However, I do have a box of black ones for the bedroom, so it isn’t too clinical. I also love the fact that after a HJ, I can just peel them off and we can then cuddle without me having to go and clean up in the bathroom.

Sounds like he’s in for a medical procedure 😂

Danishdiva · 21/05/2025 20:11

i use gloves sometimes! I had always wondered if it was just me, or if anyone else does this. It just feels cleaner, less mess and DH likes the smooth texture.

ScreamingDelight · 21/05/2025 20:17

I find some of these replies mind boggling, but then we all are different.

the thought of putting gloves on to give DH a hand job so I can then peel it off so I didn’t need to clean up sounds crazy to me, reminds me of an EX who would rush to the bathroom to wash his hands after fingering me (is this still the term used 🤣). DH happily licks his fingers afterwards. I would deffo be offended if DH wanted to wear gloves to dip a finger or 2 in. I like the feel of his bare fingers, but then I always hated condoms too. If i was giving him a HJ it often leads to a BJ, but i don’t mind where he comes. Sometimes it my mouth, his stomach, my boobs. As someone else says, its a connection, quite happily cuddle into him covered in cum. The bedding and us wash. No cuming on the face though, sperm in the eye is bloody sore 🤣.

StarlightLady · 21/05/2025 20:46

mnmnddddd · 21/05/2025 13:48

How does that square with your need for foreplay? If a partner were to suggest you should find a quiet corner, how would you reply?

I think what is done as part of foreplay is a very different ball game. Pun itended!

MisterT373 · 22/05/2025 02:19

Namechangedrunner · 20/05/2025 20:54

Disposable gloves here! I wear them for anything messy around the house too. However, I do have a box of black ones for the bedroom, so it isn’t too clinical. I also love the fact that after a HJ, I can just peel them off and we can then cuddle without me having to go and clean up in the bathroom.

Black gloves would make me think of bin liners.

SprySeal · 22/05/2025 18:37

Danishdiva · 21/05/2025 20:11

i use gloves sometimes! I had always wondered if it was just me, or if anyone else does this. It just feels cleaner, less mess and DH likes the smooth texture.

Yes we use gloves too but mostly use condoms. There is less mess. DH much prefers gloves and how smooth it is!

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SprySeal · 22/05/2025 18:53

Namechangedrunner · 20/05/2025 20:54

Disposable gloves here! I wear them for anything messy around the house too. However, I do have a box of black ones for the bedroom, so it isn’t too clinical. I also love the fact that after a HJ, I can just peel them off and we can then cuddle without me having to go and clean up in the bathroom.

There is still clean up with gloves and where DH finishes?

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Coffeislife · 22/05/2025 22:38

Aside from sex foreplay or pre bj only ever do hjs as part of massause role play where he will usually finish off on me! Loves a game of strip the tan spots

SirRaymondClench · 23/05/2025 10:11

A towel and tissues? Why not put washing up gloves on as well FFS 😂

Rarely as a main event but usually as part of BJ and I swallow. I'm not disgusted by my DH mess and sheets wash 😁

Just read that some posters are actually using gloves, how would you feel if your DH had to put PPE on just to touch you? So weird to me that some of you can't cope with the idea of come anywhere near you.

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