Spicing things up

[MaeDaymon]

So I'm having another attempt at spicing up our sex life.

I've bought some amazing underwear but I want to wear 1 of the following:

Suspenders?
Hold-ups?
Crotchless tights?

Is there a consensus of opinion on which is the most sexy?

I not sure how these will be appreciated as it's something different (Partner usually likes me in very lacy feminine underwear).

Suspenders is that attached to a waspie or basques if so that would go nice with the lacy lingerie,

Hold ups give that sexy sophisticated look and can wear with most underwear very practical cos wont get in the way at all can keep them on through out

Crotchless tights well easy access and gives that vibe of naughty to it all

I mean thats from my prospective im yet to experience this with my partner but thats a total different issue lol

Hope all goes well

My vote: the suspender belt. Preferably black and lacy. As classic and timeless as a well-cut suit.

I have always loved women in lingerie and would be very appreciative of any effort made for me so all would be good.

However as I have grown older there is something about the a suspender belt and stockings on and older (40+) women that is just so hot.

I know some women don’t feel the need to dress up and some men aren’t interested in it but they just frame and extenuate a woman shape beautifully.

Hope he appreciates the effort 😉

I vote suspenders, just something about them...

What do you feel comfortable wearing? Some it is what you feel comfortable and feel sexy wearing, sexier you feel the sexier vibes you give off.
Crotchless tights and dress, then half way through the evening let him know what youre wering or not as the case maybe!!.

The black stockings (sheer) suspender belt or basque is a well proven winner. My preference is a basque or wide decorated belt with heels that are only just safe to walk in.
For every day wear I choose stockings and not tights and skirts long enough not to show off in the ofice. When exDP (male) was driving I would often remove my pants and talk to him about what we could do when we got home. That was a good starter.
Since choosing to date a woman I found that the suspenders combo does not work. My GF prefers me in a super feminine dress, soft fabric and slinky smooth underwear.

It's wonderful to enjoy the difference.

Sorry to hijack but could you amazing MNs tell me where I can buy crotchless panties & peek a boo bras? Thank you all. 😁

@huffyhufferson . The best people don't buy! We knit our own, each stich with lust in our fingers.

I love your answer - really made me laugh!!🤣

@huffyhufferson Are you the man or the woman in your pairing?

@huffyhufferson

As above depends if it’s for yourself or for a partner. As a buyer for a partner you really need to know what they want/like before you splash the cash.

If it’s crotchless panties & peek a boo bras your after then the bottom end Ebsy (£20) the top end coco de mer around (£300)

Both can be fun for different reasons.

Oh I'm sorry, I should have clarified - I am the woman and want to buy these things to spice up my relationship with my male partner.
Thank you for the suggestions.

AP do these

@huffyhufferson

No problem. It’s much easier if you’re choosing for yourself. One of my favourite sets I bought was overt knickers and bra set from mimi holiday but they look like they don’t do them any more.

Bluebella aren’t to pricey and do open bra and knickers I’ve bought from them too.

If you’re looking for something different the harness styles are hot but I think my partner feels that she is past them (40+) but would have worn them when younger.

Hi. I'm sorry for delay in replying. Thank you for your suggestions @Chipbarmandgravy. I appreciate you taking the time to reply. I am going into town today with my friend - she suggested we go into Ann Summers! 😲 I haven't been in this shop ever, so another new experience for me!

Also, to @MaeDaymon - I am so sorry for taking over your thread. Thank you for allowing me to do this. Good luck with spicing up your relationship.😁

Thanks @huffyhufferson

The challenge has been trying to offer advice without sounding thirty lol. I have always loved buying lingerie for my partner.

Have the best time today and enjoy hope you find something suitable and as above the recipient impressed with the effort x

#. Thirsty 😂

@huffyhufferson how did your shopping trip go. Did you find what you really wanted?

Hi. Sorry for delay in replying. Well, I bought a black basque - crotchless. Rest of it is complete lace with a wee lacy skirt thing! 🤦‍♀️
I'm getting cold feet now! Lol! I've pushed it to the back of a cupboard!
Thanks again to @Chipbarmandgravy and @Springtimefordaffs for taking the time to advise me. 🤩

Thanks, good luck.

Thank you. 🤩

Should of shared a pic of the kind of outfit before pushing to the back of cupboard. Nothing intend but others good opinions

@huffyhufferson good luck hope all goes well and its greatly appreciated, maybe wgen you get time a update on the reaction

Is there any option to wear it under something? Completely get where the cold feet might come from but if it's a slow reveal rather than all-or-nothing, that could help?