Fetishes and Kinks

[SomethingStrangeWill]

Wondering what fetishes and Kinks that instantly turn you on? as men? Women? Or a couple
And how common it is

Give him a call @andsweetwhitewine? I’m sure he’d be pleased to hear from you. Especially with this nice weather 😉

I like being submissive, watching porn together, lingerie, love giving pleasure.

@andsweetwhitewine hot weather definitely makes some us feel hornier…I often venture out to dunes like Studlandbefore work or in evening, let’s say you meet some interesting people who are not shy to welcome you to join them!…. 👍🏿

@Gymbunny2025 Can't call him, after me he lived with someone else then married her. I saw the happy family pics on his FB.
Nice remembering the old days but I am moving on to explore my Sapphic instincts. Al-fresco sex does not seem to be so popular with my current friend. Might be possible if a sunny beach or other warm water is involved. .

@Reidwood , Studland! No thank you. There used to be some very weird exhibitionists there. I remember the old cafe, National Trust wanted to remove it, was it replaced?

@andsweetwhitewine you mean the one at Knolls. Hope you’re referring to any who headed little away from Harry’s…I’m guessing your encounters were not as enjoyable as mine…when did you visit ?

@Reidwood It was about 6 years ago, a friend used to like going to the nudist beach, she would just walk past and thought some of the bodies on show were 'past it' shall we say.
I moved away from Dorset between the Lockdowns. "Shook the sand from my feet".

@andsweetwhitewine , agree there are many like that, but with my friend, let’s say b , both of us black men..we got to meet some interesting cpls, many professional types,40/50 s but never weird..just curious and fun seeking..

My biggest fantasy has always been having a MFM threesome with a married couple.

This has escalated to fantasising about my wife actually having sex with another guy! For some reason though, (probably some sort of shame). In my fantasy. I'm not married to my RL wife, but to another woman who I had a casual relatonship with years ago.

My other major kink is women in sexy officewear, like short skirts and heels with black hosiery. The most 'unusual' part of this kink is that i prefer tights to stockings.

I squirt, have done for decades, more so now than ever before, although my relationship has just ended so it will be a while before I find out if it’s as abundant with anyone else .
I used to worry it was urine but it hundred percent isn’t, even just one way of knowing is that bedding, clothes etc don’t smell of wee after a session, for example if we had to rush to go out somewhere and didn’t sort the bed, we wouldn’t come home to piss smelling sheets.
i have never squirted as much or as crazily as the women I’ve seen do it in porn, I don’t know if the amount and the distance it travels is natural or not?
can someone here enlighten me?
im sure I read years ago they do extra work to make it so showy, it can’t be that all porn actors are naturally crazy big squirters surely?

I remember many years ago ago getting into weird kinks after watching David lynch films, reading about micheal hutchence death and then as someone else said, venturing down rabbit holes, reading a novel with quirky acts in it, partners I’ve had

so many different things and ways to make me feel good.
I’m pretty vanilla on the (w)hole, I enjoy butt play for both partners, pegging if the guy is down, have dabbled in same sex shenanigans , now I’m single I can perhaps explore it…
I enjoy light bdsm, little bit rough, give and receive, tied up, smacked, dressing up in all sorts, especially shiny stuff and being open to try things even if just for a laugh.

have done group sex when younger and think now it’s something that would only work for me in my head, although think some voyesrism might be a big turn on in the right scenario and often fantasised about my male lover walking in and ‘catching me’ with a woman and how he’d respond

i like the feeling of sex on stimulants, I enjoy talking dirty although not sure that’s a kink?
role play, most cheeky things lovers do, nothing too outre, would love to try shibari with someone safe.
i was looking forward to pursuing a lot further with my partner but he wasn’t able to be fully present for a our relationship and wasn’t always honest so I don’t feel he’s a safe space to continue exploring all of that with, especially as we were in love, I don’t know how to go from love to something less committed but at the same time hot when we’ve done the commitment thing, maybe that’s a thread I need to start elsewhere?
and enjoy edging, just myself for hours, I find it really hot feeling my own body and how it responds and how many different kinds of orgasms I can give myself!

I love the feeling of some fabrics, nylon and satin. Especially if used when being masturbated by a lady who is soft spoken.

As for fetish, I get insanity turned on by heels.

Watching a lady apply lipstick too. 🥰

@MisterT373

6ft 1 here

Kindness.

Not so much a kink, but having new lingerie, sometimes more risqué with open fronted thong, but having been fully waxed as well that day which he just loves. Going out for a meal and teasing him and sometimes him pretending to drop something and trying to look up my dress when out. Has previously led to a really hot session when we got home

@Namechangefromholiday I like to thrill of making her remove her lacy panties discreetly under the restaurant table or in certain public places , risqué of someone maybe noticing😉a and pass them over !

As someone who very much squirts now (recently discovered - only took 15 years) I can also confirm that it is definitely not urine for me. Maybe im the studies it's urine for some of the woman, and I dont watch porn so maybe that is do.

Just like most orgasms are fake in porn, i'm sure the squirting might be too.

A loyal, faithful man who wants me for me, who sees me as more than a sex toy. A man who treats my pleasure as equally important as his, not beneath. A man who sees me as a sexual being rather than a "slut".

That's the kind of kinky stuff I like.

it absolutely isn’t possible to remove your knickers discreetly while sitting down and wearing clothes. And in public.

reminds me of that Mr Bean episode where he gets ready for swimming (I think).

I love that episode 😂

He’s on the beach (well, shingle I think 😂) and he’s trying to get undressed discreetly in front of someone, who at the end of the scene turns out to be blind!

I’d love that but think I’d want him to keep them himself once removed 😉

The risk of being seen is a bit of a turn on.

Yes I forgot the punchline 😂 brilliant!!

I have to endure Mr Bean all the time as my daughter loves it - doesn’t seem to get old 😂

Once upon a time someone would not let me into his flat until I’d posted knickers through the letterbox!