Mens’ reaction to breast implants

[em2001ily]

Just wondering if any men on here have ever been out with a woman with implants, or if she got implants whilst you were together, what you thought about it?

You need to meet 50 something men 😅

True, but are those thousands of women with decent sized breasts?

I'm not using that as an argument or not to get them, it's obviously a personal decision. I was just saying that implants don't put off all men. Of course they do put some off.

Thanks, I used to.

Lots of people like the Barbie figure but it owuld be physically impossible to walk if we had it.

I think the male libido is onthe whole pretty sensible.

I think it's more just lollipop than Barbie - like straight, thin but with big boobs. Like Sydney Sweeney or Kate Upton. Some women do naturally have this.

I think attraction is about energy more than anything else.

Quite clearly there are hundreds of thousands of women with all sorts of sized breasts in relationships 😂look OP it's fine if you want big breasts, but you need to rid yourself of the belief that ALL men prefer them (natural or otherwise) - you've been told multiple times, often by men, that this isn't true, yet you don't seem to be hearing it... or do you just not believe it?

Energy is definitely important, but so is physical appearance....great energy won't make a man fancy a woman who just doesn't do it for him physically.

To be honest, I wish I could believe it but I just struggle to believe it. I think it's just the lifetime of being exposed to the media we have in our society, and the undoubted hype around big breasts (Playboy, Hooters in the US, films where big breasts literally entrance some male character, popularity of certain actresses or celebrities with big boobs..)

I just feel as though, and some men even say this, that men who say they prefer smaller are just telling a nice white lie, for some reason or another.

I think it's just so ingrained in my thinking.

@em2001ily I really think you would benefit from some sort of therapy rather than bigger breasts. In all seriousness.

I think most men just like boobs and are happy to look / touch / think about them whatever size and shape they are.

I think having boobs that are more immediately noticeable is what gets men's attention. Whether that's down to what you are wearing, some cleavage on display, cheeky nipple outline showing, bit of side boob, lacy bra showing or just plain old big boobs... whatever is that catches their eye and makes them think 'tits' will work, it's not all about size!

If you want the first thing men think of when they meet you to be 'tits' then go ahead! Be careful what you wish for though!

I can understand why you think that, but to be honest, I think it's just something about myself that I really don't like and don't want to just accept. So I think I would be a good candidate for surgery. I'm not going on a crazy multiple surgeries spending spree....it's just one think I feel I want to 'fix'.

@AltitudeCheck If you want the first thing men think of when they meet you to be 'tits' then go ahead! Be careful what you wish for though!

No, but that's only if you choose to get them out very obviously and have them on display. I do want to be seen as attractive though. I feel like small breasts are a huge flaw.

I think a man can see a woman as being attractive without thinking that she's just a lump of a flesh.

@em2001ily you are contradicting yourself constantly. I have no idea why you started this thread
Go and get some implants . I hope they bring you what you want.

I feel like small breasts are a huge flaw.

A healthy body is not flawed.

It is of course your body and your choice to fix your imagined flaw surgically (or get therapy to fix your belief that your perfectly normal healthy body is hugely flawed)

@em2001ily I've had men tell me they'll have sex with anyone - attractive or not. They might have a type but if that type isn't 'available' they'll take whatever they can get. Even if that means 'going ugly' (their words). If they're willing to do that, I'm guessing your small breasts won't be an issue.

If you're looking to please and attract men with your breasts, save your money. If you want them for you then work away.

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If men are having to ‘go ugly’ as they so delightfully put it, they need to take a long hard look in the mirror at themselves!!

Completely agree!

I don't mean flawed as in deformed or abnormal (no disrespect to anyone who does have any genetic deformity). I just mean 'flawed' as in not aesthetically pleasing/less attractive/less sexy etc.

I think they mean ugly in THEIR view. When I was in my early 20s and at uni, I knew a few laddish guys who would get with a girl in a bar/club, sleep with them, then say she was "really not fit at all....that face" or something like that the next day. But one of their other friends would go, "Why what's wrong with her? She's hot".

So there is an element of guys settling for easy sex. It doesn't mean that their 'ugly' is ugly to all other guys.

The thread ended up leading to other discussions beyond what it was originally about.

I won't be able to have implants until next year, due to time off work and paying for it, so in the meantime I've been venting.

Well whatever… but if they can’t attract someone who is their type, it’s because they themselves are not as attractive as they obviously consider themselves to be. Poor lambs!

I've got big boobs. I also have a very plain face. Most of the men I've 'met' (in situations where chatting up might be in order) have not chatted me up or had anything to do with me because I've got big boobs. Most of them have, in fact, bypassed me to go and talk to my pretty friends. The size of my boobs has not overcome the fact that I'm not attractive, which would lead me to believe that men go more for 'overtly attractive' rather than 'boobs! Boobs!!!' and ignore the rest.

Having larger boobs also means that my clothes don't hang well, I always look overweight (even though I'm most definitely not) because I have to buy stuff that goes over my chest, and then hangs off the rest of me.

@Vroomfondleswaistcoat You have to remember that faces are unique and more subjective than boobs though. Some men will find you pretty.

I think you will find that no two pairs of boobs are the same either and that people’s views on any body part are subjective .
you are completely missing the point of that post.

Yes every part of every human is unique; what I meant is that faces are more unique than boobs, in the sense that you can’t recognise someone from a pair of boobs but faces are unmistakable!

I do get the point of @Vroomfondleswaistcoat post, I just wanted to make another point.