Mens’ reaction to breast implants

[em2001ily]

Just wondering if any men on here have ever been out with a woman with implants, or if she got implants whilst you were together, what you thought about it?

The new gummy bear implants are supposed to feel nice and squishy though, hence the name ‘gummy bear’.

Even if implants don’t feel great though, I still want them you can get a very natural looking result with a good surgeon…. I know some men (I’m straight) hate any implants at all costs but that’s ok, plenty don’t mind.

Plenty don’t mind?? That’s a low standard. And how will you be sexy and completely attractive if some men hate implants? Sounds like you just want the big implant aesthetic so just get implants. It’s really not any more difficult than that and doesn’t really require a two thread consultation with strangers. Most of us don’t agree with your logic since it is fundamentally flawed (all men love big boobs, therefore I must surgically alter myself), you would have been better off saying I want bigger boobs, I want certain men who like big fake boobs to find me attractive, should I do it? Just live your life!!!

Look into toxicity from.breast implants. Some get really ill from it. Also surgery leads to more surgery.

You don't need any more social media opinions from total strangers, none of whom you can verify as to who they are.

Please see your GP and a therapist and talk through your issues with them.

The decision is yours, as is your life.

Take care

Mine were gummy bear OP. They still felt hard. I was single when I had them done and though they looked great in clothes and out it didn't help when it came to attracting men.
They also made me chronically sick, they do eventually with everyone who has them because they leach formaldehyde and heavy metals into the body. I didn't see it at the time because it's like a slow burn. I ended up with PMDD, autoimmune diseases and being bed bound. I'm a year and a half on from explant and my health has improved 100%. Whatever you will need to explant eventually and it can really mess up your body. Don't do it. Especially for men's approval.

@ISpyNoPlumPie Well, obviously large fake breasts can’t compete with large real ones, but they are at least better than tiny triangle real ones 😂That’s assumant they’re good implants.

I know I need to just get on with and save up and stop venting on the internet, but while I’m waiting for surgery I wanted go vent 😐

That's just it though, they aren't 'better'. I know exactly where you're coming from because I was the same. But implants are the next new scandal that will come out because surgeons who know these are toxic and killing women are still putting them in women. The same surgeons who see women with BII and who are dying from being poisoned and the cancers that can develop are the same surgeons who will charge you double to take them out.
Any man who would rather you were mutilated and poisoned for their sexual preferences isn't worth thinking about. Your 'tiny triangle real ones' are perfect exactly as they are and your health is worth far more than any large cup size.
Please please before you start saving join any Breast Implant Illness group on Facebook and have a look at the after pictures and read those women's stories because no matter who you are and how amazing your surgeon is, that's what will happen to you. Why do you think so many celebrities are having them removed?

OP please get some counselling before you get implants.

Don't like the look, don't like the idea and the scars (no matter how small) give me the ick (other normally acquired scars don't). Never actually touched them.

That's fair enough. What if they felt squishy and very close to how natural breast tissue feels though? Surely amazing implants are better than small real breasts?

Am a man and while fake boobs would not be a deal breaker, it would 'lose marks' for me.

I 100% prefer natural boobs - not a fan of huge ones anyway. Small or medium size is fine, it's who they are attached to thats the important thing. Fake ones are obvious, they feel awful (IMO) and dont look good either. The natural shape, even with age is amazing.

What on Earth is wrong with small breasts?

Ask the millions of men who drool over huge ones 😂

You could equally ask the same number of men who hate big breasts and find them a turn off.myoh could find an equal number of of men who couldn’t give a shit either way.
I think you have been told numerous times on this thread that your issue isn’t your breast size - it’s your insecurity.
I want a man to want me for exactly the way I am built and I have never had an issue with male attention. I have small breasts. I can go bra less and that is a big attraction to men I can tell you that.I would hate to want a man so shallow that he wanted me because I had plastic sewn inside me .

Realistically though, how many men hate big breasts? There are lots who really don't like small ones and find them a disappointment, but not many who think that of big ones.

I'm not short of male attention, I just think that men might still be wishing I had bigger breasts. And I'd rather not fall short.

I understand you not wanting a shallow man, but everyone wants to date someone they find physically attractive and that's ok. It doesn't mean that we're bad people.

@em2001ily no- you are looking for men who will only find you attractive if you undergo surgery.
it’s a daft as wanting a man who likes taller women so you you wear high heels and never ale them off. Or wanting man who only likes people with darker skin when yours is pale- or vice versa/ The best man will want you for who you are- just as you are. That is the man you need to attract.
You will never know if a man likes you because of your breast size. Maybe you will put people OFF you if you have surgery. I have never spoken to a man who actively likes breast implants.
At the end of the day it’s your body to do what you want with.

@BigButtons Maybe you will put people OFF you if you have surgery. I have never spoken to a man who actively likes breast implants.

Obviously, nobody can please everyone, but I feel like some women can be more appealing to more men. I don't disagree with you on any of what you say here.

True that some men don't like breast implants, but purely visually, now that implants have improved, you can't always tell whether they're fake or not. The good ones don't feel rock hard anymore, either. Some men don't mind implants if they look good.

I asked a few 20-somethings and they all said no way, they love natural, of any size and shape. Just having breasts is the exciting thing. And super sensitive nipples and preferably with the ability to produce milk if required.

Even if you don't love your breasts, the right kind of guy will.

Not even a nice guy, just a standard straight guy.

A nice guy will also appreciate them, be so happy you let him love them, and would never want you to have them cut open and stuffed with implants.

They'd never be the same again. Let someone love you as you are.

yes you will put lots of nice guys off if you have implants

I'm a high cup size and I can tell you no men are running after me with flowers, champagne, or breaking into my bedroom to leave a box of Milk Tray just because of my tits.

You are attractive, you have male attention, how are they not finding you attractive already?

You can have implants or not, it's your choice, it doesn't matter if some imaginary man or men might prefer you for your breasts than your whole being.

I know it puts some men off, yes of course.

...but there are thousands of women with implants who have boyfriends, some who met them with the implants and others who got implants during the relationship....so some men don't mind.

Not all implants look obviously fake nowadays. There are celebrities with implants and men have no idea that they're fake (or don't care).

Thank you for this. I'm sure you are attractive and that you'll get male attention. :)

There are thousands of women in relationships with no implants. That isn’t an argument that holds any water.
if you want them and are prepared to take the health risk then get them 🤷🏻‍♀️

I'm in my 50s so it tends to be men in their 80s these days 😆

@MarkingBad I also wanted to add that what a lot of the men who talk about boobs want is very thin, no hips etc but also very large breasts, like Sydney Sweeney. So any woman who has big breasts but doesn't fit that 'lollipop' shape isn't 'hot' to them.

I'm sure you have a great figure :)