Why would you find stimulating something designed for and used daily for shitting arousing? Is that part of the turn-on for all you people who like it? The excrement angle, I mean?
Just checking - do men also use their dicks to urinate? Do women use a little tiny opening just above their vaginal opening and right around their clitoris?
I know this could now because a discussion about just how 'dirty' something is, but I think that various parts of the body between the legs seem to have at least a couple of functions.
I think what's getting people going here is - it's not just that some people naturally like anal. It's that there has been a move to put anal into mainstream sexual practice, and this means women can feel more or less pressurised to want/like/at least do it.
And yes, if I think of my daughter, I think I would never even want her to know such an idea existed.
I do think the mainstreaming of anal sex is very shocking. If you ever have watched anal sex on a porn site, it is traumatising.
But if two non-porn stars want to explore each other, I guess so long as it is a genuine no-pressure experimentation, then that's up to them.
The question was how often we do it. Personally I worry about it's safety, etc, and it's a very intimate thing to do with someone, so it's off the menu. But it turns me on to think about being so filled. Which doesn't hurt and is harmless to just think about.! Try that option ...