How to indulge in husbands 3some fantasy

[Ivenamechangedforthis2020]

I’ve name changed but am a regular poster on Mn.

Been with my husband 11 years with 2 dc together.

I’m very happy in our relationship. When we first met he was open about the fact he’d love a 3some with another girl. This is something I’d often fantised about prior to meeting him but thought it was a pipe dream. He bought it up when we were Together about 6months and as we were loved up and I was possessive of him, I dodnt share his fantasy. We are now comfortable and open with eachother and the 3some topic came up a few months ago during a drunken night out. He was open about having sex with another woman and wanted me part of it. I feel that my exploration with women was never adhered too and I’m interested in exploring further, however I don’t know how to go about making it a reality or if it could have an impact on our relationship.

Are there any MNetters who have experienced this and if so how did you go about it and what impact has it had on your relationship?

Posting in AIBU for traffic. Thanks

Ahaha.

I've got some epic stories, a few spectacular ones and a monumental event that I will relive until the day I die.

Like fuck am i sharing any of that magic with you dickheads

SomeHalfHumanCreatureThing

Thanks for dropping in to let us know, obviously I'm disappointed as, no doubt, everyone else is.

@1forAll74

Would your children be aware that their Mum and Dad are maybe contemplating a three some with another woman.

Won't someone think of the children!!!

@SomeHalfHumanCreatureThing

Ahaha.

I've got some epic stories, a few spectacular ones and a monumental event that I will relive until the day I die.

Like fuck am i sharing any of that magic with you dickheads

As soon as we need to know, we'll tell you....ffs

Tell him that you fantasise about two men all over you.

I would rather go to sleep tbh.

@1forAll74

Would your children be aware that their Mum and Dad are maybe contemplating a three some with another woman.

‘Darling, daddy is having a friend around to ‘play’’.

Do you tell your children everything?

Where are my pearls?

reads, snorts, leaves

Well to be fair no adult should be sharing any kind of sexual content verbal or otherwise with a child, so I think that's a pretty moot point tbh. Unless it's within the context of age appropriate boundaries such as Pants nspcc... Which I'm pretty sure doesn't advocate children become aware of lonesome, twosome, threesome or whatever number of participant adult sexual activity 🙄

His fantasy is 2 women all over him

What a surprise. Tell him yours is two men all over you. I'm sure he will be thrilled.

If you go ahead he will be lavashish his attention and focus on the new woman and you will be left out, relationship will be ruined

Would your children be aware that their Mum and Dad are maybe contemplating a three some with another woman.

What a weird question. So you tell your children who/when/how you plan to fuck? That's not normal. Threesomes are not my cup of tea but consenting adults do not need to be making their children aware of their sexual activity.

I said my girl on girl fantasy would not involve him but he’d be turned on to watch.

Long time ago a female friends husband assented to her girl on girl fantasy with him "just watching". Cue sexual assault charges and a very messy divorce. Men think their sexual needs obviate women's.

I would rather go to sleep tbh.

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This, really.

There's a difference between fantasy and reality. You'd be a fool to do this. Think about logically if you become jealous or don't like it, then he has always fucked another woman. What then? What if he lives it so much he wants it often or meets other women. It's a slippery slope you're going down.

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Some people don't know why "fantasies" are called fantasies. Or vice versa. They aren't supposed to happen in real life.

I don't know why so many men wait until they're in a committed relationship, to suddenly decide they want to do this?
The time to do it was when they were single.

Pp1: Dick is abundant and low value, the girls are normally all over each other, it's not about him.

Pp2: Nail meets head

Sounds painful. I'm not sure that's what the OP's husband quite has in mind,

I'd go via the escort route. Otherwise I'd think he's auditioning for your replacement, sanctioned by you. I worked a Chatline years back so I know how wrong 3somes go. In 4years I only had 1 where it worked for everyone & that was because the couple's 3some guy who they found on adultdating.co.uk was American & only in the UK periodically .

When I had a threesome at a party it started out with us all touching each other and very quickly turned into me and the girl going down on each other and having a great time together. Honestly, I forgot he was even there and I'm pretty sure she would say the same. I think he wanked himself off towards the end but I don't really remember because I wasn't looking.

Think I'll head back to the Corona threads....

@SomeHalfHumanCreatureThing

Ahaha.

I've got some epic stories, a few spectacular ones and a monumental event that I will relive until the day I die.

Like fuck am i sharing any of that magic with you dickheads

I have had some amazing experiences in my life. Places I’ve visited and lived. Things I have done. I’d rather have that than sex experiences to relive until the day I die 🙄. Your post makes you sound as though you think yourself superior to others. When in reality one person’s dream life is another’s hell - some people would have hated leading my life.

My single friend joined a swinging site (A unicorn apparently-just learned that). She met up with a couple, had herself a threesome, and then ended up having an affair with the bloke.
The wife was pregnant, it was very messy and ended in tears. DONT DO IT!

The OP might get some helpful advice in the sex forum
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/sex

I nearly did it once when I was young, before I was with my husband. He and she were very keen - I ended up in tears.

No thanks.