But most in this thread haven't been saying it's disgusting.
The thread has been funny and informative.
It's works I know nothing about.
Tbh I think I am more likely to judge a man doing it more negatively than I am a woman doing it.
As it is both of us are happy being monogamous. Him probably more than me, tbh. He likes the quiet life.
Let's be honest it doesn't matter what you do someone will disagree with it. My mil is appalled that I and my kids kick box. She insists I will turn the kids into thugs. Except she has never been and watched, never met out Sensi and knows nothing about it.
My mum who did feel the same, as mil, came to a fight night and watched and she loved it. Couldn't believe how lovely all the kids were to eachother and how family like the atmosphere was.
It's all very respectful, anyone found to fighting outside the dojo are suspended.
Mils attitude doesn't bother me as I know my kids are being taught to be respectful and not fight. But they can defend themselves if they need to. It's also given them confidence and dd has come on in leaps and bounds since doing it.
If people think swinging is disgusting, let them think that....and crack on. It doesn't effect you.