How many sexual partners have you had?

[SurferJet]

I've had 5.
There won't be anymore.

I've lost count but I think around 700 would be a conservative estimate, 1,000 would be a high estimate. Strangely out of all of those there were only 4 or 5 which were disastrous and regrettable. I have been sexually active for 3 decades, and have had months without sex and other periods where I have had a lot of sex in a short time. I like sex.

Leavemywings my figures are distorted as I have been to quite a few orgies where 25 or so partners in one night was not unusual.

Don't you get very sore?

Penetrated by 25 men in one night? I would get thrush after 2!

35

But only 2 in the last 24 years

When people mention sexual partners, is that full on piv sex or just snogging and up?

For me its piv

It would have to be PIV for me, although I think if I'd had two-way oral sex with someone, and given them a hand job as well then it would be a bit disingenous of me to not include them in my head count!

I don't think snogging and minor petting/groping counts.

PIV

6 for me

3 boyfriends and 2 one night stands age 16 to 22, then only DH for the last 18 years

7- 5 men, 2 women. Wish I'd just skipped to the current\last one

8 PIV. DH 2 PIV. We have discussed each others numbers but since I've only slept with him for over 20 years it's kind of irrelevant these days.

Also amazed at how high some of these numbers are, I was single for most of my degree and snogged about 50 men in those 3 years so I'm assuming the people who have high numbers have slept with every man they've had any kind of physical contact with.

I had to go and try to make a list but I think I'm on number forty now and hoping that that is the end of the count as I've never been so satisfied.

A mixture of long term relationships, good willed mutual one night stands, awful sneak out to the taxi rank shags and everything in between.

I think about 15 or so. This was before I met my husband 14 years ago so it's a bit hazy now. Maybe 20?

3

I can't remember, but 40-ish? Given that was from 16-22, i was fairly active.

At the time I told myself I was happy, just wanted the sex, all good, no-strings fun. Looking back I realise I was desperately insecure and looking for love / approval.

Obvs this didn't materialise from a string of drunken one night stands and they probably sucked me deeper into a spiral of desperate affection seeking.

I would love my past to be what I wished it was at the time, not ashamed of the number but would like the associated memories to be happier.

I've lost count although it isn't an outrageous amount. I think around 12.

15

I am 41

About 15. DH was the last and met him when I was 28 (I'm 34 next month).
So 14 between the ages of 16 and 28. That's just over 1 a year. That's not that bad, is it?
I've had one night stands with people I've known / friends. Never gone home with a random from a club or someone I've never seen again or anything like that. Just never had it in me! (Literally lol)

About 30/40 I don't remember. Last time I counted I was about 34 though and hat was a few years ago.