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How many sexual partners have you had?

146 replies

SurferJet · 24/10/2015 16:27

I've had 5.
There won't be anymore.

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ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight · 25/10/2015 16:45

Around 30, but I have lost count because I can't remember them all. It was around 25 when I got with xh over 10 years ago and there have been 5 since so I'm guessing 30 give or take. I made a list once but I don't know where it went.

LeaveMyWingsBehindMe · 25/10/2015 16:49

Am sat here aghast.
how old are some of you? No moral judgement just a practicality one.
when I was single (till I was 27) I went out and met people had a great time, didnt feel like I was holding back yet my number is 8.
from age 19-27.

Me too Strumpers

I was in a LTR for 8 years from being quite young and we broke up and I then had a couple of wild years before I met DH at 25, and I thought I but I still only have a headcount of 14 or 15.

To the poster who said she got into 3 figures by the time she was 19, who do you even do that? I mean, that is mindbogglingly prolific. I'm not sure I'd even spoken to that many guys at 19, never mind shagged them. Confused

spudlike1 · 25/10/2015 17:04

Yes spareusername I've had similar experiences with girlfriends trying to prove something , I don't know what ( their purity) Then having the number I've given recounted back to me via gossip and more judgement Confused who gives a flying fuck .
If someone's been fortunate enough to meet the man of their dreams early and be happily joined at the hip ever since go them .

spudlike1 · 25/10/2015 17:19

Oh and those of you who have enjoyed the variety that life has to offer ...go you Smile

Helmetbymidnight · 25/10/2015 17:19

I don't think it's fortunate to meet the man of your dreams early. I think it's quite unfortunate.

timelytess · 25/10/2015 17:22

Not many. Yet.

spudlike1 · 25/10/2015 17:22

Each to his own ...what ever floats ones boat ...as they say

Branleuse · 25/10/2015 17:31

Nothing wrong with having many lots of partners if its all been consensual. Its good to have fun before you settle down

bodenbiscuit · 25/10/2015 17:45

Why are some people judging about it? It's none of your business how many partners others have and why would you care?

Monkeyinshoes · 25/10/2015 17:51

1

Savagebeauty · 25/10/2015 17:52

Exactly!! I had lots of fun in my youth!
And still am Grin

Spidertracker · 25/10/2015 18:34

2,
The first I bitterly regret although I loved him in the way a 15/16 does and it was an 18 month relationship.
The second is DH. I can't imagine there ever being a third but I don't know what the future holds. I do know I will never be with anyone I don't know well and truly love.

pocketsaviour · 25/10/2015 19:29

20-30, I don't keep track and went through a period of heavy drinking and shagging around in my late teens to twenties so there's some very blurry memories.

Haven't added any to my tally for the last 2.5 years though. As I told someone the other day, I'm in a sexless monogamous lesbian relationship with my cat - and she's the jealous type Grin

OddlyLogical · 26/10/2015 13:22

In the past 25 years - just 1
Before that - quite a lot, never counted. Some casual, some relationships.
I enjoyed sex, wasn't always looking for anything more than that.
Never quite understood why anyone cared!

goodcompany2 · 26/10/2015 18:06

About 35 up until I met DP 18 months ago. Having best sex & wonderful (swinging) relationship of my life & added about another 10 since. Hmm

jclm · 26/10/2015 21:50

Well depends on how you define sex (as some people here are not heterosexual). I've had 20 or so. I've also loved one person who I didn't have sex with.

Lenazabaglione · 26/10/2015 22:23
avocadosarentmiddleclassed · 28/10/2015 20:36

I stopped counting at 50! Very married now though :) I blame the hippy parents!

The80sweregreat · 28/10/2015 20:45

1

winchester1 · 28/10/2015 20:52

Triple figures, 1 LTR for 5 yrs in my 20's and met OH at 30, just busy enjoying myself the rest of the time.

Do you know your OH number?

TheImminentGin · 28/10/2015 20:52
  1. My regret is not having more fun when I was younger.
winchester1 · 28/10/2015 20:52

And does he know yours?

TheImminentGin · 28/10/2015 21:04

OH has had 69.

SerenityReynolds · 28/10/2015 21:50

Full sex, 1 - DH

Other shenanigans, 2

Sometimes wish I had had a few more, but at the same time have no regrets whatsoever that DH was the one I lost my virginity to.

LeaveMyWingsBehindMe · 29/10/2015 06:36

People have assumed that others are judging them for having had lots of partners on this thread. For me it's not a question of judging you on your promiscuity, It's just that I don't understand how you physically and chronologically have the time to meet these people and fit them all in, unless you are never in an actual relationship with anyone.

I understand if you are in your 40s or 50s and you've spent many years being out of LTRs, but how on earth does someone only in their late teens to mid twenties manage to get up to triple figures? Confused especially if they've been in any proper relationships that might have lasted months or years as well.

You'd have to be shagging a new person every single week for 2 whole years to get over 100. It must be exhausting. Spread across say ten years, I can see hoe it happens, but if you are only 19 as a PP said she was, how do you even manage to meet that many people that want to sleep with you in such a short time frame? Confused

I was quite a good looker in my day and got chatted up as much as the nest woman. I've had a handful of ONS and a few short term casual on/off relationships as well as my two LTRs, but I even in my 2 'wild' years aged 22 to 24, when I was out two times a week at least, I don't think I could have got it into triple figures if my life had depended on it. In fact I am 50 now and I don't think I've even met over 100 men that I've found attractive enough to even consider having sex with. And I'm not that fussy. Grin

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