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Why white children are not getting into grammar schools

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deanstreet · 13/02/2026 15:23

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2026/02/11/why-white-children-are-not-getting-into-grammar-schools/?WT.mc_id=tmgoff_fb_photo_not-getting-into-grammar-schools

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IndiraGhandi · 20/02/2026 09:41

deanstreet · 19/02/2026 22:07

When you guys say Asian, are you referring to brown or asian?

We are brown. But the east Asians do very well as well.

deanstreet · 20/02/2026 12:05

I had always thought in general asian do better than brown academically, plus they are very into music.

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IndiraGhandi · 20/02/2026 12:38

deanstreet · 20/02/2026 12:05

I had always thought in general asian do better than brown academically, plus they are very into music.

Brown people are till from Asia

deanstreet · 20/02/2026 12:48

Either way, it is very clear to me that asian and brown are academically top of the school pile.

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IndiraGhandi · 20/02/2026 13:19

deanstreet · 20/02/2026 12:48

Either way, it is very clear to me that asian and brown are academically top of the school pile.

They are look at GCSE grades and A-levels they massively out perform.

Evidence in the USA shows they even out earn.

OhDear111 · 20/02/2026 16:33

The ONS doesn’t have “Brown”. Classifications attached.

Why white children are not getting into grammar schools
Araminta1003 · 20/02/2026 16:56

Personally, I am done with filling in any type of “classification” for both my DC and myself. I just state “prefer not to say” when actually thinking, none of your fucking business! I understand that for health it was meant to help initially, but it has gone too far. As far as I am concerned, it is nobody’s business what ethnic group or race any of us are or what mix.

OhDear111 · 21/02/2026 01:05

@Araminta1003 When considering prostate cancer, men should know they are in a higher risk group. This is proven to be linked to ethnicity. Ethnicity data for health matters. It’s helpful to help others by giving info.

StuffyHuffyPuffy · 21/02/2026 01:25

OhDear111 · 20/02/2026 16:33

The ONS doesn’t have “Brown”. Classifications attached.

Just an honest question to anyone, if you are 50:50 between 3 and 4, do you choose 5, or tick whatever?

I don't actually know. I've been ticking all sorts for DC, who face a similar scenario when filling these forms.

grammargran · 21/02/2026 06:06

Dahlagain · 20/02/2026 06:47

@deanstreet South Asian = brown eg Sri Lankans
I would say Asians are as above or indian etc. I would call Chinese people oriental to differentiate. I personally wouldn't call a person who is oriental, 'Asian'

Where I live in London, grammars are dominated by South Asians and Nigerians, both of which place a huge amount of focus on education. I was chatting to 2 Nigerian couples recently, both sets deeply religious, little or no screen time, absolutely no movies/tv, kids only study or play draughts/chess/all children so well behaved and go to exceptional independent schools. The white English parents in my independent school all but one are very chilled. Happy to just pay fees but dont push their kids at all, no real effort on homework, all have phones, all into Space NK. The difference is they are very wealthy, and the kids dont need to do well. If mum and dad live in a 10m pound house, you are sorted. Just the one English family are focused on education because both the parents drive this and as a result the children are extremely well spoken/work hard and are aiming for grammar/independent schools outside London.

Most Asians i know have children in independent schools. They would have tried grammar, but if they didnt make it, they throw everything they have to going private.

Some have the disposable cash but many others will give up everything to get them in. That's no holidays, maybe no cars, renting homes rather than buying. Certainly im guilty of it. I don't know whether its the right thing but everything I earn goes on school fees. We are in a predominantly white part of London and easily the poorest in class but one of the top attainers. My children are extremely driven. Its not necessarily me, its more that ive instilled in them that if they dont try, they will kick themselves if someone 'worse' than themselves gets ahead of them. So they have to give things their best shot.

Off the top of my head, the new privately educated Asians are moving into high finance. The generation before were doctors/dentists and accountants. I know people who barely speak English yet their kids work for Goldman Sachs.

With sports, I know a few exceptional Asian kids who are great at football and cricket. But its secondary to education for them, unless they aren't academic at all. You never see Asian footballers in the big leagues. I think the reason rugby isn't as popular is because loads of Asian mums are terrified their kids will get hurt so they discourage it.

The biggest difference is that they are white before their wealth. There is so much racism (even if it's unconscious) embedded into education and subsequently employment that black/brown families cannot afford to simply sit back and relax and see what happens.

Dahlagain · 21/02/2026 08:49

@grammargran from my experience of finance in the city, its still predominantly white in senior roles. Those who are Asian tend to be extremely well spoken/well educated and often very little of their asian-ness left ie they could be white if you heard them. And barely anyone black. So I believe those in minorities have had to work harder to get ahead hence parents push them hard at school.

puffyisgood · 21/02/2026 08:55

IndiraGhandi · 20/02/2026 13:19

They are look at GCSE grades and A-levels they massively out perform.

Evidence in the USA shows they even out earn.

Depends who you mean by "they". And the patterns are quite different at GCSE vs A level. When it comes to getting really good A level grades, Chinese students are vastly better than White British ones, Indian students a lot better, but Pakistani & Bangladeshi students markedly worse (making 'South Asian' overall not so different on average), with both black Caribbean & black African doing far worse.

www.ethnicity-facts-figures.service.gov.uk/education-skills-and-training/a-levels-apprenticeships-further-education/students-aged-16-to-18-achieving-3-a-grades-or-better-at-a-level/latest/

IndiraGhandi · 21/02/2026 09:00

puffyisgood · 21/02/2026 08:55

Depends who you mean by "they". And the patterns are quite different at GCSE vs A level. When it comes to getting really good A level grades, Chinese students are vastly better than White British ones, Indian students a lot better, but Pakistani & Bangladeshi students markedly worse (making 'South Asian' overall not so different on average), with both black Caribbean & black African doing far worse.

www.ethnicity-facts-figures.service.gov.uk/education-skills-and-training/a-levels-apprenticeships-further-education/students-aged-16-to-18-achieving-3-a-grades-or-better-at-a-level/latest/

Yes yes, seen this before. I agree with you.

puffyisgood · 21/02/2026 09:13

IndiraGhandi · 21/02/2026 09:00

Yes yes, seen this before. I agree with you.

Even those somewhat disaggregated numbers aren't all that helpful, though far better than "Asian", e.g. if you were able to drill down into "Indian" you'd see what's widely known to anyone who's had extensive dealings with that diaspora, namely that British Indians of East African migrant heritage (Kenya, Uganda, Tanzania) are a class all to themselves, in socioeconomic terms not representative of "Indian" at all, and hugely dragging up the number of very high achievers (as opposed to quite good achievers), and if you got really into it you'd even see within "Chinese" huge divergence between those with origins in eg Malaysia vs HK vs mainland vs Vietnam etc.

OhDear111 · 21/02/2026 09:14

@StuffyHuffyPuffy I don’t work for the ONS but I assume there is guidance!

Araminta1003 · 21/02/2026 09:43

And white British when you dwell deeper you see massive differences based on region and socioeconomic background and „class“ for want of a better word.

IndiraGhandi · 21/02/2026 09:50

I was saying in the USA by incomes and wealth I checked and "Asians" do better.

In the UK raw pay wise Asian borns are paid generally 11% than white British

puffyisgood · 21/02/2026 10:26

IndiraGhandi · 21/02/2026 09:50

I was saying in the USA by incomes and wealth I checked and "Asians" do better.

In the UK raw pay wise Asian borns are paid generally 11% than white British

"Asian" in the US means something very different, mostly East Asian, the biggest groups, in order, being Chinese, Indian, Filipino, Vietnamese, and Korean.

In the UK, it's almost all South Asian, the biggest groups being Indian, Pakistani, Bangladeshi, and Sri Lankan.

The average South Korean and Pakistani (especially Mirpuri) family has less in common with each other than the average South Korean and "white" families.

deanstreet · 21/02/2026 10:57

As an Asian American, I am very surprised in the UK Asians refer to brown people. In both US and Asia, Asians refer to Asians, not brown people. In top US schools, students (and professors) are mostly Asians, and then brown, and then white, very few BME.

Because Asian and brown parents are very committed to education from a young age and have a high tendency to tiger parent. In a competitive (non-welfare) society, success in life generates self-respect and happiness, whilst in a welfare-state (UK?) the white mentality gears towards happiness now.

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treeowl · 21/02/2026 11:15

Araminta1003 · 21/02/2026 09:43

And white British when you dwell deeper you see massive differences based on region and socioeconomic background and „class“ for want of a better word.

Class is definitely a huge factor

Jrisix · 21/02/2026 11:20

deanstreet · 21/02/2026 10:57

As an Asian American, I am very surprised in the UK Asians refer to brown people. In both US and Asia, Asians refer to Asians, not brown people. In top US schools, students (and professors) are mostly Asians, and then brown, and then white, very few BME.

Because Asian and brown parents are very committed to education from a young age and have a high tendency to tiger parent. In a competitive (non-welfare) society, success in life generates self-respect and happiness, whilst in a welfare-state (UK?) the white mentality gears towards happiness now.

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"Asians refer to Asians, not brown people"

People are using Asian as a shorthand for whichever Asian group is most represented where they are. In the US that's East Asian, in the UK that's South Asian.

Simonjt · 21/02/2026 11:47

deanstreet · 21/02/2026 10:57

As an Asian American, I am very surprised in the UK Asians refer to brown people. In both US and Asia, Asians refer to Asians, not brown people. In top US schools, students (and professors) are mostly Asians, and then brown, and then white, very few BME.

Because Asian and brown parents are very committed to education from a young age and have a high tendency to tiger parent. In a competitive (non-welfare) society, success in life generates self-respect and happiness, whilst in a welfare-state (UK?) the white mentality gears towards happiness now.

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I’m from Asia, in Asia, Asian refers to Asians, we look very dimly on people who like to pretend that Asia is only east Asia, as thats a pretty racist view. We would also never use the racist term starting with O either.

OhDear111 · 21/02/2026 18:22

I’d just use the ons definitions. Not invent our own. Then official stats will actually mean something and as this thread was about grammar schools, what has the USA got to do with it?

Epli · 22/02/2026 10:36

treeowl · 21/02/2026 11:15

Class is definitely a huge factor

Yes, class is usually the biggest factor not ethnicity or race. Proportionally more Chinese or Indian immigrants are educated and come to the UK to work in white collar jobs, whereas immigrants from Bangladesh are usually less educated and higher proportion works in low skilled jobs.

However, there is still an effect of cultural background, but it is not as high when controlled for class and education.

februaryrains · 22/02/2026 12:22

To a PP…
How do you mean “sound white”. Do you mean they have a British approach to life and accent? My parents are immigrants but are white, but I sound very “English” and have an English sense of humour.
Sure that applies to all those who are “second generation “?

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