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Magnificentkitteh · 13/02/2026 07:57

Good luck today Dolphin. Everything crossed for you.

mjuww · 13/02/2026 08:13

South Hampstead emails are coming now

DolphinOnASkateboard · 13/02/2026 11:20

Magnificentkitteh · 13/02/2026 07:57

Good luck today Dolphin. Everything crossed for you.

Thanks everyone... We've been promised an email "after 4pm" so let's wait and see. If it's good news I'll pop back and let you all know. If not, I'll be busy opening a bottle of something.

DolphinOnASkateboard · 13/02/2026 11:21

...and, to reiterate, I'm very much expecting the worst as his score was just too low on the day. Which just makes me loathe the whole system as his results through six years of primary school have been exceptional, but everything I've read suggests that counts for very little.

Pipsquiggle · 13/02/2026 12:03

Good luck to all Bucks SR folks.
I am crossing my fingers 🤞🏼 for you.

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Plumbernightmare · 13/02/2026 16:14

Thinking of you @DolphinOnASkateboard

BdayQ · 23/02/2026 07:26

Hope everyone is doing well.
Do people know what happens on allocation day next Monday and how we actually find out which school? Thanks.

CheerfulMuddler · 23/02/2026 07:34

The council send you an email. Then the school sends you another email explaining how to confirm your place. I think it was around 8 or 9 in the morning for primary places but can't remember exactly.

ShiningLikeAButterbean · 23/02/2026 07:40

CheerfulMuddler · 23/02/2026 07:34

The council send you an email. Then the school sends you another email explaining how to confirm your place. I think it was around 8 or 9 in the morning for primary places but can't remember exactly.

^ This is how it works where we are too but as local authorities run it I think it can vary depending on where you are. I’m sure last year some people were still waiting to hear in the afternoon.

Magnificentkitteh · 23/02/2026 08:22

In London I'm pretty sure they don't email until 5pm.

Is anyone on here going to the Latymer welcome event on Wednesday?

BdayQ · 23/02/2026 09:13

ShiningLikeAButterbean · 23/02/2026 07:40

^ This is how it works where we are too but as local authorities run it I think it can vary depending on where you are. I’m sure last year some people were still waiting to hear in the afternoon.

Thank you both. So we wait to hear from them rather than us having to log on to anything? Good to know, thanks.

Magnificentkitteh · 23/02/2026 10:10

If I recall correctly it did appear on the portal a little earlier than the email arrived but I only know that because I was obsessively checking after people started to hear

TeaandHobnobs · 23/02/2026 12:55

For Bucks (this is 3 years ago), I received an email about 11am confirming our offer, and then needed to log onto the portal to accept.

Pipsquiggle · 23/02/2026 13:19

It really does depend on your council.
For DC1, we got our email at 00:01 - which was a relief as I couldn't sleep anyway

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trying29 · 23/02/2026 15:01

can you say which council thsi was for? nerves are already setting in and its a week away!

Pipsquiggle · 23/02/2026 15:05

trying29 · 23/02/2026 15:01

can you say which council thsi was for? nerves are already setting in and its a week away!

@trying29
RBWM - Maidenhead & Windsor

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DolphinOnASkateboard · 23/02/2026 15:46

DolphinOnASkateboard · 13/02/2026 11:21

...and, to reiterate, I'm very much expecting the worst as his score was just too low on the day. Which just makes me loathe the whole system as his results through six years of primary school have been exceptional, but everything I've read suggests that counts for very little.

So as you may have guessed my prediction was accurate. Been a week now, still sad, still angry about how stupid it all is. The panel noted his exceptional academic achievement over the years and agreed with his school that he was on track for top marks at the end of Y6... but that, hey, he didn't score very highly in the STS, and that's what matters. So all a complete waste of time, really. His teacher and head are both utterly baffled by it, they genuinely can't understand how this situation has developed when various subjectively less able kids who have struggled throughout primary have made it through. We'll do an appeal post offer day just to go through the motions but that's pretty much that.

DS is pretty chilled about it, keeping positive, looking on the bright side, actually keen to prove everyone wrong. But I just see a boy who for years has been genuinely excited by maths and science now being destined for a school where literally one pupil got a top grade in GCSE physics last year, and where the whole culture from the head down seems to be about making sure kids reach the minimum standard required rather than reaching their full potential.

My tip for any Bucks parents who find this thread would be to ignore everything the council and TBGS says about kids not needing to be tutored and to teach to the test for as many years as you can afford. The system is completely stacked against you if you don't, which is presumably why the poorer areas of Bucks continue to have pass rates well below the more affluent ones.

Magnificentkitteh · 23/02/2026 17:13

Sorry to hear it Dolphin. It is indeed a ridiculous system. The more you think about it the less sense it makes. I'm glad ds is stoical. I bet he will prove them wrong, little trooper. I don't know what your budget is like but having agonised about dd1's school i am topping it up with online classes which is a more affordable version of tutoring. It's a pita because she's knackered after school but at least her school is only down the road.

CheerfulMuddler · 24/02/2026 08:06

I'm sorry, Dolphin. So many people get fucked over by this system. I don't know anyone, anywhere, who thinks it's fair.

Poonu · 01/03/2026 01:16

Good luck to everyone for their first choices the national offer day

Magnificentkitteh · 01/03/2026 18:15

Thank you and good luck everyone! I'd got myself very relaxed as our second choice is guaranteed but DD is suddenly very invested in her first choice again so I'll be pacing a bit tomorrow. I think in London we have to wait until evening

trying29 · 01/03/2026 19:18

yes I think its 5pm in London - still unsure if you log into eadmissions earlier the results will be there earlier?!

slaybell · 01/03/2026 20:09

Oooh 5pm that sucks.

Ours comes at midnight or just after. Was 00:07 last year

Magnificentkitteh · 01/03/2026 20:30

trying29 · 01/03/2026 19:18

yes I think its 5pm in London - still unsure if you log into eadmissions earlier the results will be there earlier?!

Not much I don't think but won't stop me trying I'm sure.

trying29 · 01/03/2026 20:31

ha I will be refreshing as much of the day as I can. on a bloody course for most of it

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