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11+ 2025 support thread #2

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AquaPeer · 23/09/2025 12:27

we are on the home run now! Continue to support, love and share in this thread

link to previous

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/secondary/5200929-11-2025-support-thread?page=40&reply=147336748

continued good luck to all x

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DolphinOnASkateboard · 16/10/2025 09:11

I'm busy taking comfort in data. For 2024 admission, only 15% of people had a successful review with DS's score. BUT a couple of hours wrestling with Excel tells me that if you only look at people with that score who, like him, got a 1:1 rating from the head, that figure rises to 50%. Which is giving me a little floating door to cling to, even though Kate Winslet will still likely shove me off it come February.

DS himself is still being glum, though he's also being a lot more positive about the upsides of our local not-great-but-could-be-worse upper school.

Dadsbabe · 16/10/2025 09:21

Morning, anyone got any news about Trafford consortium?

CheerfulMuddler · 16/10/2025 09:21

DolphinOnASkateboard · 16/10/2025 09:11

I'm busy taking comfort in data. For 2024 admission, only 15% of people had a successful review with DS's score. BUT a couple of hours wrestling with Excel tells me that if you only look at people with that score who, like him, got a 1:1 rating from the head, that figure rises to 50%. Which is giving me a little floating door to cling to, even though Kate Winslet will still likely shove me off it come February.

DS himself is still being glum, though he's also being a lot more positive about the upsides of our local not-great-but-could-be-worse upper school.

Do you know what happened on the day? Why he didn't get the score the school expected? Sounds like it might come down to extenuating circumstances?
50% is not bad odds, particularly if you have a good background to the marks.

Magnificentkitteh · 16/10/2025 09:24

@Dolphin, I looked at that data too (apologies if I'm overly invested in your story but it feels like we have all been on a journey together) and what struck me was actually the lack of stark difference in success rates at the different scores so I assumed it was some other factor (likely those ratings) that made the biggest difference. I know it'll be a torturous wait until Feb though. Do you have any other options worth exploring in the meantime?

IsThatYouPam · 16/10/2025 09:40

Dadsbabe · 16/10/2025 09:21

Morning, anyone got any news about Trafford consortium?

No 🙄Although surely the schools will be getting annoyed with people contacting them now so maybe they'll send out an email with a results date at some point!

Dadsbabe · 16/10/2025 09:44

IsThatYouPam · 16/10/2025 09:40

No 🙄Although surely the schools will be getting annoyed with people contacting them now so maybe they'll send out an email with a results date at some point!

t's quite disappointing, especially considering they announced it much earlier last year. It’s hard to understand why there’s such a delay this time, and the lack of even an approximate date makes it even more frustrating. The uncertainty is really difficult to manage at this point.

TeamGeriatric · 16/10/2025 09:53

I'm still waiting for Skipton results (boys school) via post, we've not had any post delivered since last Saturday. The results were officially due the week of Monday 13th October, which we are still in but is a pretty vague timeline. I don't see any results related Facebook comments so presumably it's not a post related delay, and all parents are all still waiting. I'm starting to go a bit loopy, especially as on a daily basis I never actually know if the postman has even delivered to our street yet.

Katy55 · 16/10/2025 09:56

Anyone waiting for Kent test results today? Refreshing inbox incessantly but feel I might have many hours to go! So anxious

MamaKiwi · 16/10/2025 10:08

I am, @Katy55! Literally on the floor. School just called (about a younger sibling) and I jumped out of my skin thinking it might be results-related - alas no.

YourBrickCrab · 16/10/2025 10:09

Katy55 · 16/10/2025 09:56

Anyone waiting for Kent test results today? Refreshing inbox incessantly but feel I might have many hours to go! So anxious

yes indeed. Same here. Though I read somewhere the results will be sent later in the afternoon. I think it was supposed to be around 1600 hrs. All the best to everyone. I don't think I will have any nails left at the rate I am chewing them. Good thing is DS is not getting my stress, so I am doing well to hide it in front of him.

Purpletoes · 16/10/2025 10:09

I am as well @Katy55 so nervous heading to a yoga class to stop myself from checking for an hour, have already cleaned filter in washingmachine to stay occupied this morning

Purpletoes · 16/10/2025 10:13

They cleverly havent stated a time only that if in county you can check on website from 5pm, usually the emails filter through the day as they have so many to send .

Katy55 · 16/10/2025 10:14

MamaKiwi · 16/10/2025 10:08

I am, @Katy55! Literally on the floor. School just called (about a younger sibling) and I jumped out of my skin thinking it might be results-related - alas no.

I’m a wreck! I really wanted to get it before school pick up so I could digest and compose myself before I share the news with dd. Hope you get your email soon! Why the school just can’t tell us is beyond me 😩

Katy55 · 16/10/2025 10:15

Purpletoes · 16/10/2025 10:13

They cleverly havent stated a time only that if in county you can check on website from 5pm, usually the emails filter through the day as they have so many to send .

I’ve heard anytime from 10am in past, why they can’t just all be uploaded to website at 9am I don’t understand! Good luck x

DolphinOnASkateboard · 16/10/2025 10:16

@CheerfulMuddler What happened on the day remains a mystery. All we know is that his maths score was well, well below every maths score he has ever had in six years of primary school. Had he been even close to a "normal" performance he would have breezed through. My current theory is that, hurrying along in his usual determined way, he failed to read a question properly at the start of a section and then dropped the next six marks as a result. But we'll never know for sure, which in many ways is more frustrating. We don't have any extenuating circumstances to speak of, and most of the online guidance suggests that it doesn't make a great deal of difference unless the child's dad dropped dead the night before or something.

@Magnificentkitteh Yeah, once you get away from those who just missed the cut (the 120s and 119s) the raw number of successful reviews drops off pretty evenly. But again, wasting time on Excel when I should be doing all the work i didn't do last Friday, the head's ranking really does seem to carry quite a lot of weight. Anything other than a 1:1 and the odds are very much against you, but if you get the top ranking you're in a with a shot. Head is going to predict greater depth across the board in Y6 and we've got five years of reports and tests to prove that's a reasonable expectation, so there's not a lot more we can do other than cross our fingers.

Other options are thin on the ground. We looked at our local-ish private schools and there's no universe in which we could afford to send him even if they were 20% cheaper. Looked over the border into Herts where there's a decent comp but he'd have to cycle four miles along hilly, dark, twisty 60mph roads to get there, and in most of the past decade we've been too far away to get a place anyway. As for the Bucks state options at which we could realistically expect to get a place, our local is the best of a generally uninspiring bunch.

He'll be fine there, it's not a hive of scum and villainy or anything like that, we're not worried about him getting stabbed, he'll get to walk to school and be close to all his current friends. Someone we know who was in a similar situation last year said their DS is loving being top of the class in everything. And of course GCSE pass rates etc are about averages rather than individuals. Just because less than half of children got grade five or above in English and maths, it doesn't mean that nobody got a a dozen grade nines. It's just that, if you'll forgive me the parental rose-tinted specs for a moment, everyone who has ever met him or taught him says he's exactly the kind of kid that grammars were originally created to serve. State-educated, hard-working, academically able. If we're going to have this stupid system, he should at least benefit from it.

Katy55 · 16/10/2025 10:16

YourBrickCrab · 16/10/2025 10:09

yes indeed. Same here. Though I read somewhere the results will be sent later in the afternoon. I think it was supposed to be around 1600 hrs. All the best to everyone. I don't think I will have any nails left at the rate I am chewing them. Good thing is DS is not getting my stress, so I am doing well to hide it in front of him.

I pray they come earlier! Good luck! I’ll update here when I receive in case it’s earlier than we’re thinking!

Purpletoes · 16/10/2025 10:19

Katy55 · 16/10/2025 10:15

I’ve heard anytime from 10am in past, why they can’t just all be uploaded to website at 9am I don’t understand! Good luck x

Website can be a disaster just look at what happened in Bexley on Tuesday it crashed and never recovered

AmIAloneInThinking · 16/10/2025 10:25

Purpletoes · 16/10/2025 10:19

Website can be a disaster just look at what happened in Bexley on Tuesday it crashed and never recovered

Hoping we won’t experience that debacle 😂 Looks like Kent email results as a default?

CheerfulMuddler · 16/10/2025 10:27

Katy55 · 16/10/2025 10:15

I’ve heard anytime from 10am in past, why they can’t just all be uploaded to website at 9am I don’t understand! Good luck x

Probably to avoid the Bexley chaos as everyone checks at 9am and the website crashes.

Katy55 · 16/10/2025 10:29

Purpletoes · 16/10/2025 10:19

Website can be a disaster just look at what happened in Bexley on Tuesday it crashed and never recovered

Can’t be dealing with that 🙈

TheCoralHelper · 16/10/2025 10:30

Sameee, every ping on my phone feels like a mini heart attack
I need to bury it in a drawer before I lose it completely!

BdayQ · 16/10/2025 10:33

Dadsbabe · 16/10/2025 09:44

t's quite disappointing, especially considering they announced it much earlier last year. It’s hard to understand why there’s such a delay this time, and the lack of even an approximate date makes it even more frustrating. The uncertainty is really difficult to manage at this point.

I think the results came out on the 22nd last year, but parents were given a few days warning that that would be the date. Whereas the year before I believe the results just arrived without warning. Who knows what to expect this year! But according to those who have called the grammar schools, it’s going to be next week rather than this.

MamaKiwi · 16/10/2025 10:34

Smashed the Shepway x2, which entitles both boys to a place at the local grammar. We are so relieved.

Icantpeopleanymore · 16/10/2025 10:38

I've got a busy couple of hours ahead teaching year 8, no doubt their shenanigans will keep my mind off it!

CheerfulMuddler · 16/10/2025 10:44

@DolphinOnASkateboard This is exactly what I feel about DS. Smart, geeky, loves learning, nose always in a book. Liked doing the 11+ prep because he enjoyed being set interesting maths questions. Can't really afford private, and DH is an diehard Old Labour type who wouldn't even consider it.
We might get into one of the religious schools, which would be fine. But I looked round our local non-religious school and it honestly felt like a prison. Croatia would be preferable.

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