DS1 got 2x 5s (English lang and lit), 5 x 4s (maths, double science, history, RE) 3 x 2s (engineering, PE, Art). The 2s were all expected, school changed engineering course at the end of year 10 because of staffing issues, moved the short course sport to GCSE PE and he ended up hating art.
The maths result is fantastic for him. English and history grades are a curveball. He got 8s and 7s at mocks in February. Need to speak his sixth form college next week as 2 of his 3 a-levels are impacted. He is heartbroken. As a family we've gone through hell this year; my DH has 3 different chronic illnesses all caused by one genetic blood disorder, toxic narcissist MIL who lives 250 miles away was diagnosed as terminally ill in January and given 8 weeks to live, she is NC with all family apart from DH and one of her siblings so DH has been driving 600 miles a week to support her every week for 8 months because she has outlived every timeline we were given. Then in the middle of exams he got a stomach bug.
Yesterday the school basically ignored him and anyone with lower grades and fawned over the ones who got the highest marks. No teacher sought him out, nobody offered words of advice or support or helped us make sense of marks or grade boundaries. He's the kindest, most caring, loveliest boy, he's so easy to be around and these grades don't define him etc but right now, at this moment, they are defining him and it is incredibly painful to watch him go through that.
I'm certain in 5 years time this will all be water under the bridge but right now....oooft.