All these comments about schools only bothering with the high achieving pupils makes me so cross. It is ridiculously unfair, and just plain wrong. My DD did very well yesterday, as did the majority of her year group - they are in a selective grammar school, and are a particularly good year group. There were certainly plenty of pupils chatting to teachers outside yesterday and hearing congratulations and seeing lots of smiles.
The ONLY pupils who were given more than that, were the ones who had struggled. Anyone who was in tears, or looked shocked or upset in any way was ushered inside and given a ton of support and comfort. For everyone else, it was smiles, congratulations, and then told to phone the school later in the day to discuss changes to subject choices for next year if required.
One of DD’s friends didn’t get the grades she had been hoping for and is now rethinking her choices for next year. The reality is, that she didn’t do enough work - she’s a bit of a messer and just didn’t knuckle down enough. She knows that, her parents know that, the school knows that - absolutely no-one berated her yesterday - the school offered her nothing but support, comfort and encouragement. Equally an another girl who busted a gut through some really awful health struggles, also didn’t achieve what she’d hoped for - through absolutely no fault of her own - she received the exact same support, comfort and encouragement. THAT’S how it should be done.