@Charleycccc000
I have an XL bully and he tends to ignore passers by but sometimes he just wants a sniff, like 90% of other dog breeds. I have 2 young children and he’s a credit to us. Unless they are being trained incorrectly you shouldn’t pin them all under the same judgement. My boy is called Olaf & pees himself of a dog growls at him. He is the biggest softy ever. Don’t judge a book by its cover he’s 3 and I’ve never had any issues with him at all.
Of all the breeds you could have chosen, especially with young children, could you explain why you chose an XL bully? I can't get my head around it.
Any dog can attack and this can happen through no fault of their own - if they get a brain tumour / if they're scared / if they think they're protecting someone in error...
But some dogs can be overpowered if this happens. And some dogs would be able to injure by physically unlikely to cause life changing injuries or death.
No matter how well behaved your boy is in principle, the fact is that if any of those things happen, you absolutely could not overpower him to stop the attack from escalating. You simply couldn't due to the breed's size and strength.
I can't understand bringing an animal into your home when if that animal did attack, there would be absolutely no way to overpower it.
I appreciate you love the dog but can't you see why people believe it's so irresponsible to have them in a home with children in particular?