Thanks for taking the time to respond everyone, and for the links and the arguments etc. FWIW we should probably continue the conversation assuming everyone here loves Scotland and Scottish people and want the best for its/their futures. Also probably useful to assume that people hold their views (pro Indy and pro Union) for intelligible and intelligent reasons even if it doesn’t always feel that way to you.
I would love to hear about what would have to change for you to fully change your current position?
For me to change from Pro-Indy to pro union I think it would be some or all of the following;
Scotland would become equal to England in decision-making that affects the whole union, as would Wales and N.I.
Proportional representation would have to be brought in to the Westminster system. A big issue with the union as it stands is that it’s London/Home Counties centric, if all parts of the union and all aspects of society were better represented this would make the union values more aligned with Scottish values
I’m not sure what it would be, but I would want to see reform that prevented huge moves such as exiting the EU and whatever it was that Liz Truss did to the economy from happening in future. I’m worried that the UK doesn’t have enough checks and balances in place to withstand the whims of political extremists. I think Cameron made a huge mistake by running the referendum the way he did, but a nation as big as the UK shouldn’t be at the mercy of one person’s hubris in any case.
Scottish history and culture would have to become a main stream part of UK education system from the Scottish perspective (along with the other countries too of course). Generally, I would like the curriculum to become a lot more diverse in terms of perspectives and UK cultures. England and English history is seen as the norm, the central story of the UK, while the other nations are important in so far as they played a role in English history/culture.
The final thing that I would need for me to change my position is a change in Westminster attitudes towards Scotland. I think Westminster politicians don’t show enough respect to Scottish leadership and to the Scottish parliament. It’s usually quite subtle (not always, Liz Truss is a good example of overt hostility) but the feeling of the rhetoric from all main parties at Westminster is quite paternalistic, it’s not “we love Scotland, Scottish people and Scottish culture and we think it makes us all better and makes us proud of the UK” it’s more “we might give you more power if you prove to us you can be trusted with it, but so far you’ve acted like a bunch of silly billies, so we don’t want you to leave but only because we’re worried you will do yourselves an injury”. It’s like they see Scotland like a 5 year old who’s bundled up their pyjamas and their favourite teddy and is threatening to runaway, rather than country with a rich and distinct offering to the whole nation.
I should underline that I don’t expect these things to happen, I’m not even claiming they should happen rather I’m saying if these things changed (or my perception of them changed) I’d probably be pro union. What would make you change to pro union? What would make you change to pro Indy?