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Tell me this is not real please. Scotland's first period dignity officer is a man. A MAN.

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Rainbowshit · 15/08/2022 21:37

I just can't put into words how furious this makes me. Females are having the pis absolutely ripped out of them in Scotland.

What the fuck would a male understand about the indignity of realising you'd leaked through onto your clothes.

About the cold fear when your period is late.

About trying to unwrap a tampon quietly. Etc etc.

I suppose the only saving grace is at least they are not claiming to be a woman.

www.thecourier.co.uk/fp/lifestyle/health-wellbeing/3593497/dundee-man-leading-period-poverty-fight-how-to-get-free-products/

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Tha · 16/08/2022 14:19

If it's a 'getting products from A to B' role or managing the rollout of free products then why not advertise it as Logistics Manager?

I honestly can't think of a reason right now why anyone would be upset THAT specific role, advertised as such, was given to a man if he was the best qualified and had the most experience.

But Period Dignity Lead Officer, you'd be expecting someone who, at the very least, had years of experience and a varied career in stuff like youth work / social work / community outreach etc, and really considering the job role says there WILL be outreach and it's all about "empowering and encouraging" young girls, it should have an exemption under the equality act to hire a woman. On what planet could young girls going through puberty be encouraged and empowered about periods by a 30-something man?

1blossomtree · 16/08/2022 14:30

and it's all about "empowering and encouraging" young girls, it should have an exemption under the equality act to hire a woman. On what planet could young girls going through puberty be encouraged and empowered about periods by a 30-something man?

The project aims to empower and encourage communities including young women.

For example:

  1. Provide support to the project team in identifying, developing and facilitating events and activities that engage our communities and young people, creating opportunities for learning, networking, and accessing free products, (with a particular focus on identifying barriers to access and reducing the stigma around menstruation and period products.
NeverDropYourMooncup · 16/08/2022 14:34

I'd really like to know whether any middleaged women applied for the role.

Discovereads · 16/08/2022 14:37

Waiting4baby2 · 16/08/2022 13:46

@Discovereads its not sexist though is it? That would imply the women who take issue with this have a dislike for men and that’s why they don’t want him in the role. They see him as unfit for a role of ‘period dignity officer’ for reasons that have been explained very clearly and they are entitled to that opinion without being labelled sexist.
Posters on here defending this keep referring to his ‘PM role’ because they can’t even bring themselves to say ‘period dignity officer’ because they are trying to minimise this and make anyone who disagrees look hysterical.

No, we are being technically accurate by calling a PM role a PM role. It’s not minimising anything to seek to inform posters specifically what type of role this is.

They see him as unfit for a role of ‘period dignity officer’ for reasons that have been explained very clearly and they are entitled to that opinion without being labelled sexist.

Yes the reason is he’s not a woman so he’s never had a period. Which is not a requirement needed to fulfil this role at all and so insisting that he cannot do the job because he’s not a woman is sexism.

Discovereads · 16/08/2022 14:38

Rainbowshit · 16/08/2022 13:55

Well quite. He doesn't seem to I think he's a glorified pen pusher now does he?

For other pen pushers obviously.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 16/08/2022 14:41

with a particular focus on identifying barriers to access and reducing the stigma around menstruation and period products

What happens if he identifies the giant fucking barrier? The really, really huge fucking barrier?

Will he disappear up his own arsehole and create a rift in the time space continuum?

Discovereads · 16/08/2022 14:45

SpidersAreShitheads · 16/08/2022 13:37

In fairness, @IrisVersicolor we have no way of knowing whether the women were happy or not.

As a PP on this thread pointed out, the orders on who to recruit may have come from higher up and quite often in this situations it's career suicide to be the dissenting voice.

But yes, you're right the vast majority of women on this thread and the other thread from yesterday over in Feminism can see what's really going on and aren't happy.

I'm about to go out with DD but I just popped to see the latest comments. I see Discover has resorted to chucking around baseless insults based on her own bizarre determination to be a male apologist, exactly as @AlisonDonut points out. There's no point talking to someone who's ignoring the facts that don't suit her agenda, so I'm going to mute this and duck back out.

The insistence of being happy with centring a man in a public role where he's been appointed as a spearhead for women's rights and women's services is just mind blowing. But then, there's plenty of handmaidens willing to support male agendas to the detriment of their fellow women, as a couple of people here have aptly demonstrated.

I'm off. Have a good day, all.

I see Discover has resorted to chucking around baseless insults based on her own bizarre determination to be a male apologist,

How am I a male apologist when I’m literally defending the hiring decision of four senior women?

There's no point talking to someone who's ignoring the facts that don't suit her agenda
Yes, let’s silence the women on the thread that have PM experience and listen to the person with zero PM experience who can’t read a basic PM job description without getting confused and claiming it says something completely different from what is actually written. Wonder who’s ignoring facts here?

The insistence of being happy with centring a man in a public role where he's been appointed as a spearhead for women's rights and women's services is just mind blowing. But then, there's plenty of handmaidens willing to support male agendas to the detriment of their fellow women, as a couple of people here have aptly demonstrated.

Thats not the role though. He’s not spearheading anything. Also, again how can I be a handmaiden for supporting the hiring decision of 4 senior women managers who actually know more about this project and the man they hired to do the project management for them.

Pretty funny you accuse me of “baseless insults” when you’re in the same breath calling me and others “male apologists” and “handmaidens” when all I’ve done is point out correctly that your views are sexist. That’s not a personal insult btw. And it’s not baseless. Saying a man cannot do a job because he’s not a woman is sexist when it is this type of role.

saltedcaramel1 · 16/08/2022 14:46

NeverDropYourMooncup · 16/08/2022 14:34

I'd really like to know whether any middleaged women applied for the role.

Four of them (100%) are on the working team who are leading the project

1blossomtree · 16/08/2022 14:49

NeverDropYourMooncup · 16/08/2022 14:41

with a particular focus on identifying barriers to access and reducing the stigma around menstruation and period products

What happens if he identifies the giant fucking barrier? The really, really huge fucking barrier?

Will he disappear up his own arsehole and create a rift in the time space continuum?

GAH

He is not the one identifying barriers.

He is supporting a working group who will be conducting research which aims to identfiy barriers.

I'll post the full paragraph again

  1. Provide support to the project team in identifying, developing and facilitating events and activities that engage our communities and young people, creating opportunities for learning, networking, and accessing free products, (with a particular focus on identifying barriers to access and reducing the stigma around menstruation and period products.

I just think this thread is actively damaging to women's rights by providing a smokescreen of something to get distracted about, when there are so many genuine things to be fighting for.

Strawberrypicnic · 16/08/2022 14:52

I think it could be good for young boys to see a man talking about periods and related issues in a neutral, factual way, without embarrassment. Boys need to understand the menstrual cycle too. Surely this is an important part of destigmatising it. It doesn't seem like he's trying to appropriate the actual experience of having periods.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 16/08/2022 14:52

saltedcaramel1 · 16/08/2022 14:46

Four of them (100%) are on the working team who are leading the project

They're completely different jobs and would presumably have higher grades, higher salaries, different KPIs, different experience, more relevant qualifications, and so on.

I asked about this job. How many middleaged women applied for this particular role?

Waiting4baby2 · 16/08/2022 14:53

@Discovereads i think you protest too much and are purposefully ignoring the wider context and not to mention power dynamics around this. This hasn’t happened in a vacuum - it has happened in a very specific cultural and political climate wherein increasingly women feel their boundaries are being stepped on in the name of inclusivity. People aren’t upset about this because they don’t understand what a project manager is or because they are sexist.

Boybandfacedfannyfart · 16/08/2022 14:57

It’s probably already been said, but an “officer” in LA-speak just means line manager. It’s not a euphemism for fully-accredited PM.

he’s probably got a team of female assistants answering to him. Showing them how feminism im should be done. (Props to the onion article posted up thread).

saltedcaramel1 · 16/08/2022 15:02

NeverDropYourMooncup · 16/08/2022 14:52

They're completely different jobs and would presumably have higher grades, higher salaries, different KPIs, different experience, more relevant qualifications, and so on.

I asked about this job. How many middleaged women applied for this particular role?

Given that it's 18 months fixed term graduate position, on a very low salary, I imagine not many middle aged people applied.

They probably struggled to recruit.

I don't understand why you're clamouring that a woman must have been passed over for the job.

Discovereads · 16/08/2022 15:04

Waiting4baby2 · 16/08/2022 14:53

@Discovereads i think you protest too much and are purposefully ignoring the wider context and not to mention power dynamics around this. This hasn’t happened in a vacuum - it has happened in a very specific cultural and political climate wherein increasingly women feel their boundaries are being stepped on in the name of inclusivity. People aren’t upset about this because they don’t understand what a project manager is or because they are sexist.

Sorry but feelings of being upset don’t justify the rampant sex discrimination or the vitriol levelled towards this man who has been hired to do a job that either sex could do that I’ve seen on this thread and social media today. Or the blatant efforts to spread misinformation about the role specifically to create outrage.

This is a dark day for equality and feminism. And it’s depressing really. Feel like it 1992 again and women will be culturally and socially limited to working womens issues and men all the other issues again. What I and others fought so hard to break out of.

You can’t close the gender gap in PM if all the womens issues must have female PMs, that will mean just another excuse why a woman can’t work other initiatives because she’s needed for projects about babies, children, periods, menopause, FGM, breast cancer, DV, rape, and the list goes on. There aren’t enough of us to do both.

Discovereads · 16/08/2022 15:05

Boybandfacedfannyfart · 16/08/2022 14:57

It’s probably already been said, but an “officer” in LA-speak just means line manager. It’s not a euphemism for fully-accredited PM.

he’s probably got a team of female assistants answering to him. Showing them how feminism im should be done. (Props to the onion article posted up thread).

You do know Onion is a fake news site? It’s articles are fiction for entertainment.

Boybandfacedfannyfart · 16/08/2022 15:07

@Discovereads 😂🙄 of course, but I’ve got a bit of time to explain the article for you and help you draw parallels. I can explain it for you, but I can’t understand it for you. But do let me know if you’d like me to walk you through it.

Boybandfacedfannyfart · 16/08/2022 15:08

FYI - satire is not “fake news” and it’s its. 😁

RJnomore1 · 16/08/2022 15:20

Given no one on this thread can answer a question about other applicants, perhaps someone wants to send an FOI request to ask how many and gender split, no idea if it would competent under the legislation though.

Mind you even if you did get it, when I advertise at that level I get applications from people with absolutely no experience chancing their arm, think burger van chef applying for a post with a particular qualification needed so it might not tell you very much anyway.

Festoonlights · 16/08/2022 15:59

Strawberrypicnic · 16/08/2022 14:52

I think it could be good for young boys to see a man talking about periods and related issues in a neutral, factual way, without embarrassment. Boys need to understand the menstrual cycle too. Surely this is an important part of destigmatising it. It doesn't seem like he's trying to appropriate the actual experience of having periods.

And there it is. Always back to the boys. Boys are educated at school about menstruation. The very point of this role is to support WOMEN and GIRLS.

Festoonlights · 16/08/2022 16:01

Discovereads · 16/08/2022 15:04

Sorry but feelings of being upset don’t justify the rampant sex discrimination or the vitriol levelled towards this man who has been hired to do a job that either sex could do that I’ve seen on this thread and social media today. Or the blatant efforts to spread misinformation about the role specifically to create outrage.

This is a dark day for equality and feminism. And it’s depressing really. Feel like it 1992 again and women will be culturally and socially limited to working womens issues and men all the other issues again. What I and others fought so hard to break out of.

You can’t close the gender gap in PM if all the womens issues must have female PMs, that will mean just another excuse why a woman can’t work other initiatives because she’s needed for projects about babies, children, periods, menopause, FGM, breast cancer, DV, rape, and the list goes on. There aren’t enough of us to do both.

It’s a dark day for women when men are given carte Blanche again to take over a role that they have no hope of fulfilling with any authority or authenticity.

1blossomtree · 16/08/2022 16:04

It’s a dark day for women when men are given carte Blanche again to take over a role that they have no hope of fulfilling with any authority or authenticity.

Have you read the job specification? @Festoonlights

Waitwhat23 · 16/08/2022 16:30

There's been a few mentions of 4 women who are the senior managers on the working team and who are leading the project.

Can someone please link to the article or other information source which states this as I've not seen a source for this elsewhere. To be fair, I may have missed it but it would be useful to have it confirmed.

PrimAndProperPearlClutcher · 16/08/2022 16:34

Discovereads · 16/08/2022 13:19

I see you started a new thread on this which is chock full of misinformation, especially written by @SpidersAreShitheads

www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4612399-dundee-man-leads-fight-against-period-poverty

I am wondering about your motivations? You seem awfully invested in trying to whip up outrage over nothing.

Where have I posted misinformation?

And questioning my motivations is not on. You are way out of order.

I posted quotes from the newspaper article.

PrimAndProperPearlClutcher · 16/08/2022 16:40

Rainbowshit · 16/08/2022 13:41

Why are people trying to gaslight us into believing that this will be a very hands off PM grunt role only and there will be no talking to young girls when we can ALL read what the job description says.

"Project leadership....This will include engaging with staff, partners, communities and young people"

If you're having to lie to get your point across then maybe you know you're on the wrong here?

Indeed. And a nice bit of accusation/questioning of the motivations of any women who dare to speak about the subject, too. Odd, isn't it?

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