By far the biggest issue we have is lack of trust - DS now has a world weary expression that no 8 year should have and mutters 'it'll not happen' or 'yeah, right' or 'what's the point?' a lot.
This all stems from constant disappointments as things have been taken from him constantly under the Covid rules. Although I have been careful not to promise anything, the fact that things have been cancelled at the last minute because of Covid (parties, activities, theatre, seeing people) bubbles and zones are brought back in at school, swimming lessons disappeared for 18months as organisation couldn't hire a pool to deliver them in etc etc has left him with a profound sense of disillusionment no young child should have.