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Guilt Free Railing 10

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WouldBeGood · 01/08/2021 23:04

Is the end nigh?

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titsintiers · 13/08/2021 07:54

That's harsh @Lockdownbear we regularly walk by a care home when walking the dog and see residents looking out the window. I feel so sad for them.

riverrunning · 13/08/2021 07:59

grovee I saw an advert on one group I happened to be on, you wonder how many people aren't on that group and where else the places were advertised.

I read that article and it's so broad you wonder where the money has gone.

I still see no evidence of any announced plans to address the effects of covid on anyone but especially those in education.

Not to mention lockdownbear that so many of the elderly and terminal have caught covid in hospitals.

Haudyourwheesht · 13/08/2021 08:15

@shouldistop

I'm sorry *@Lockdownbear*

I do sometimes wonder if anyone actually asked the elderly and terminally ill if they wanted to be shielded from their loved ones to protect them.

My parents said they'd rather catch covid and die than not see their grandkids.

Sadly restrictions meant we couldn't travel to see them for ages anyway, but I'd imagine that's not an unusual position.

latissimusdorsi · 13/08/2021 08:25

I'm sorry @Lockdownbear

Elderly people in care homes have been treated appallingly.
Statistically people are within the last 2yrs of their life when they move into a care home.
They were denied visits from family members, only able to see them through the window, not hug them for over a year.
All to keep them safe from Covid so they can die of Alzheimer's/stroke etc.
This happened to a relative of DH and she didn't understand why her children couldn't visit her.
Absolutely tragic and appalling way to treat our elderly.
WTF were they keeping them safe for🤷🏼‍♀️

shouldistop · 13/08/2021 08:32

@titsintiers we walk past a care home every day. Last year ds1 started waving when he saw people looking through the windows. I explained to him that they couldn't see their families etc so he started sending little drawings. He gets lots of waves back now, from the staff too.

TheGenealogist · 13/08/2021 08:33

My railing today is against stroppy 13 year olds who think they know it all, and have a shouting match with you at 8.15 am when you suggest that they might want to wear a jacket because they live in SCOTLAND and it's RAINING. Hmm

shouldistop · 13/08/2021 08:35

@TheGenealogist I mean, what do you know? You've only been around a lot longer than them! I knew it all at 13 too of course.

My 5yo is equally stroppy this morning actually. Came downstairs and said "tell him to stop looking at meeeeeee!!!!" About his 8 month old brother Hmm

Groovee · 13/08/2021 08:40

Isn't it the deal at 13 you don't need a coat, even in the rain?

TheGenealogist · 13/08/2021 08:42

Who knows. He is generally being a bit of a mouthy nightmare at the moment. He has grown a lot over summer, old blazer doesn't fit, new one hasn't arrived, so he's off in his shirt and jumper.

Lockdownbear · 13/08/2021 08:46

The care homes is a catch 22, they needed to watch out for the staff or the staff would leave, many are on low wages so could easily get work elsewhere. And their was possibly an element of recognition that the very vulnerable could easily overwhelme the hospitals. Many wouldn't get a hospital bed anyway.

But I certainly think PPE, and more thought should have been put into making visits happen. Rather than a blanket No Visits.

At the very beginning in the first lockdown when Boris said "3 weeks" lockdown. They knew 3 weeks was a pipe dream. Sheilders were told 12 weeks and BBC was also told sort education for all levels for 12 weeks.

But so many people were strung along with the 3 weeks, thinking its OK its not that long, who else remembers care home staff, sacrificing themselves by staying at work, limiting the risk of them taking covid in?
For 3 weeks it would have seemed manageable but not so manageable for 3 months or longer.

Even in January so many were taken in with schools are only closed an extra 10 days. Bullshit and Scot Gov knew it teachers weren't getting 3 in service days to sort a week online teaching.

BridgetJonesPanties · 13/08/2021 08:51

@TheGenealogist

My railing today is against stroppy 13 year olds who think they know it all, and have a shouting match with you at 8.15 am when you suggest that they might want to wear a jacket because they live in SCOTLAND and it's RAINING. Hmm
Do we have the same child? Twins maybe?

My 13yo was mad that her new hairdo for school got all wet.

Well, ye were telt hen Grin

titsintiers · 13/08/2021 08:58

That's so lovely @shouldistop I bet he makes some people's day Smile

ElephantOfRisk · 13/08/2021 09:01

Good railing today folks. My rail today is yet another SNP broken promise for our kids, remember the pledge to upgrade every play area in Scotland for £60m? Well apart from the fact that wasn't enough and they were told so, now they don't have the money anyway so kids and communities have now to get together proposals, so if your area doesn't get done? Kids fault innit....

Haudyourwheesht · 13/08/2021 09:06

[quote shouldistop]@TheGenealogist I mean, what do you know? You've only been around a lot longer than them! I knew it all at 13 too of course.

My 5yo is equally stroppy this morning actually. Came downstairs and said "tell him to stop looking at meeeeeee!!!!" About his 8 month old brother Hmm[/quote]

God, we get this.

'She would stop looking at you if you would stop having a ridiculous hissy fit about nothing'. Hmm

Haudyourwheesht · 13/08/2021 09:14

@ElephantOfRisk

Good railing today folks. My rail today is yet another SNP broken promise for our kids, remember the pledge to upgrade every play area in Scotland for £60m? Well apart from the fact that wasn't enough and they were told so, now they don't have the money anyway so kids and communities have now to get together proposals, so if your area doesn't get done? Kids fault innit....
Surely that made no sense anyway? Within 30 minutes walk of us, there is a brilliant play park, needing nothing done, one that is so/so, needs a bit of upgrading, and one that is an absolute shithole. So a blanket sum to improve every play park is a waste of money. Councils should be checking what areas need work done, and ensuring the money goes to the right places.

Of course the worst one is in the area where kids are least likely to go out of the area for days out to the zoo, etc, so where it's most needed. Also in the area where there are fewer people to apply for funding and, of course, where any new equipment is most likely to be vandalised. Sad

Lockdownbear · 13/08/2021 09:19

@TheGenealogist

My railing today is against stroppy 13 year olds who think they know it all, and have a shouting match with you at 8.15 am when you suggest that they might want to wear a jacket because they live in SCOTLAND and it's RAINING. Hmm
At what age did the aversion to jackets start? So they also fight over trousers in snowHmm

My 4 yo takes jackets of and needs to be persuaded that trousers are a good idea.

Lockdownbear · 13/08/2021 09:20

That was meant to read "do they...."

ElephantOfRisk · 13/08/2021 09:23

Didn't really matter what the promise was to be honest haud, they had no intention of doing it anyway.

ElephantOfRisk · 13/08/2021 09:31

Some kids just run hot so don't want clothes... Teenagers are a different matter though, it's not about temperature.

OnceUponAWhine · 13/08/2021 09:38

Railing about the squirrel that’s appeared in the news today. Oh look a ScotGov squirrel.

Let’s light the fire under gender issues for four year olds, get everyone frothing about that. Perhaps then they won’t notice all the other failings in Education and Children’s issues including a hospital across Scotland, which can not just be passed off as ‘the result of the pandemic’.

Their total incompetence and destruction of Scotland makes me so angry.

ElephantOfRisk · 13/08/2021 09:42

Well given the amount spent on media folk it's not surprising that their squirrel tactics are en point. Its just bizarre isn't it? It'll be giving all school children the vote next but get them practicing on ballot papers with only the SNP on them.

titsintiers · 13/08/2021 09:46

It's absolute bs isn't it @OnceUponAWhine

I wish someone would advise the SG that gender is a social construct.

OnceUponAWhine · 13/08/2021 09:53

@ElephantOfRisk

Well given the amount spent on media folk it's not surprising that their squirrel tactics are en point. Its just bizarre isn't it? It'll be giving all school children the vote next but get them practicing on ballot papers with only the SNP on them.
Is that not already a thing? A wee class trip out to the polling station. Honestly, if I didn’t know better, I’d have to check that…

So I think we’ve identified the ONE thing they’re v.good at. Squirrels. ScotGov squirrels.
Vertical ones, of course wearing wee tartan facemasks for inside the tree and if they go to squirrel high school, but not for the squirrels who like to dance.

WouldBeGood · 13/08/2021 10:48

DS was taught in geography that Scotland is a country well served by international transport links, and excellent transport links throughout the country when you arrive …

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latissimusdorsi · 13/08/2021 11:04

Clearly that teacher had never been north of Inverness or to anywhere on west coast north of central belt Hmm