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Thread 7 - No pitch forks or Pom Poms - Scottish political shenanigans

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TheShadowyFeminist · 06/04/2021 15:46

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forfucksakenett · 15/04/2021 16:54

@TheShadowyFeminist I don't think the impact on women is of little worth. I'm not entirely sure where I've said that or why you would think that?

I have absolutely no idea what the impact on women will be in real terms.

forfucksakenett · 15/04/2021 16:56

@WouldBeGood

It’s really hopeless when all the arguments are just the same old SNP good/England bad.
Who put forward this argument? I must have missed that!
titsintiers · 15/04/2021 17:01

Where have you been then @forfucksakenett? It is rehearsed almost daily.

Selkiesarereal · 15/04/2021 17:05

No one really cares about women in prison, they are at the bottom of the pile.

Few care enough about refuges as let’s face it, it’s small number affected.

Few care about sport or elite sport and the actual realisation will hit in about 8 years time when more transwomen appearing in mainstream events at the olymics.

Basically many don’t really care as it won’t affect us until it is much too late - the look away affect.

And in case people incorrectly assume that I don’t care about women prisoners, I most certainly do and all the vulnerable groups including transwomen.

happygolurkey · 15/04/2021 17:05

SNP supporters appear to be quite ill-informed on what they're doing.

Unionists on this thread appear to me to be utterly unable to understand what I thought was a basic principal of life - that sometimes people have a different viewpoint from yourself.

forfucksakenett · 15/04/2021 17:07

@happygolurkey on all Scotnset threads I'd say.

Very frustrating. If you don't agree then you don't understand. Or you don't care 🤷🏻‍♀️

TheShadowyFeminist · 15/04/2021 17:15

[quote forfucksakenett]@TheShadowyFeminist I don't think the impact on women is of little worth. I'm not entirely sure where I've said that or why you would think that?

I have absolutely no idea what the impact on women will be in real terms. [/quote]
We've already had lengthy discussions on the fact you believe TWAW if they say so, particularly when they do any number of things that, in your eyes, makes them a woman. The distress & harm to women doesn't feature when you say you are happy to include TW in female spaces. Those spaces are numerous but specifically cause harm & distress where women are most vulnerable - prisons, hospital wards, communal residential settings, refuges, changing rooms and yes, even toilets.

The shift in what western countries are willing to sacrifice for the sake of males who don't want to be considered male is ever growing & disproportionately impacts women in a number of areas. The minute you say 'it's fine here' that's used as a wedge everywhere else. It's the reason Scottish Trans Alliance targeted vulnerable women incarcerated in prison - to make those arguments for male inclusion everywhere else easier to argue.

When you support self ID, it's a bit of a cop out to say you only mean the nice decent don't want any hassle TW who have had full surgery/transition & not those dodgy blokes over there who would never take advantage of the safeguarding loopholes that self ID creates. If the gender ID umbrella includes males of a variety of 'inner genders' who also are a risk to women & girls, it's incumbent on those advocating for it to explain what safeguarding they will include to mitigate that wider umbrella's risks. Because so far, the most ive seen is 'but men don't need self ID to rape women' & 'it's not someone trans you need to worry about, it's men/rapists' & absolutely zero effort made to actually think about what self ID actually means in terms of the harms that will disproportionately affect women & girls.

When sturgeon says trans rights don't threaten her as a women, what she means is, she doesn't care about the women who will be impacted. There's already a young teenage girl in Scotland who was gang raped & refused the guarantee of a female only rape counsellor or female only support space, by Rape Crisis Scotland. That's the impact of self ID. You still buying into that? I won't ever buy that this is the only way to manage this issue - remove women's access or right to female only provision for the sake of the tiny number of males who don't want to be seen or thought of as male.

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WouldBeGood · 15/04/2021 17:30

Not all those who question the SNP are unionist either

TheShadowyFeminist · 15/04/2021 17:41

@WouldBeGood

Not all those who question the SNP are unionist either
I've voted SNP in the past. I've also voted Labour & for a decent independent candidate. I've a vague recollection of voting for LibDems once but could be havering on that one. I'm not a Unionist but need to be persuaded that independence is the right thing on a pragmatic & detailed 'warts & all' level. I'd have been very easily persuaded of the benefits of Indy off the back of the abysmal brexit deal Johnson achieved & the SNP missed the opportunity to capitalise on that wave of feeling in Scotland.

An SNP not pushing regressive anti-women policies, who could actually explain the benefits & mechanism of Indy could get my vote if they were convincing. With Sturgeon & her blinkered GRA obsession - that's never going to happen. But I'm just one vote so she's likely very meh about that anyway.🤷🏻‍♀️

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forfucksakenett · 15/04/2021 17:49

@TheShadowyFeminist

I can care about transwomen and women. I know that you believe that isn't possible but it is.

I am not in favour of self ID. I believe it's too late to turn it back. I would be in favour of some changes. I think there should always be some form of medical/ psychological involvement for example.

Yes I would welcome transwomen into safe spaces because I don't believe that transwomen have an agenda to harm women. If a transwoman is accessing a refuge then I believe she needs help. I couldn't and wouldn't turn her away.

You say that women might be traumatised by the presence of a transwoman. Sadly this may be true but there are countless other variables here.
Many women wouldn't be traumatised by a trans presence.
Many trans women pass as female, especially in the younger generation.
A tiny fraction of society is trans. What are the chances of a traumatised woman running into a trans person in a refuge?
Can a traumatised woman request all female staff during a hospital stay? No I don't believe that she can.
Couldn't situations like this be dealt with on a case by case basis rather than a blanket ban on a vulnerable group? Care workers are used to dealing with the individual, highly variable and often sensitive needs of their service users.

If self ID comes to fruition, and it will in some form, then yes you cannot pick and choose who is a worthy transwoma based on their appearance and so on. I wouldn't want to. There are plenty masculine biological woman for example so I'm not sure what your point is there. What can be done, however, is to ensure that people claiming to be trans like the person in that article you posted are reported to the police. Never should people like that be the reason that an honest transwoman doesn't get the help she needs.

forfucksakenett · 15/04/2021 17:52

@WouldBeGood

Not all those who question the SNP are unionist either
I've questioned them loads of times. Still typecast as a cheerleader 🤷🏻‍♀️ Now I can addd woman hater too!
Selkiesarereal · 15/04/2021 18:08

I think from that last post you can add transphobe to the list!

forfucksakenett · 15/04/2021 18:09

Aww God am I transphobic now as well? Why?

Selkiesarereal · 15/04/2021 18:18

Not an out and out supporter of self ID makes you transphobic apparently.

StarryEyeSurprise · 15/04/2021 18:25

@TheShadowyFeminist How you're coming across isn't great and it's actually caused me to stop writing anything on this thread but I feel the need to now.

During the aftermath of what happened to me, I was dealt with by a woman and then it was a man that took the photos of my injuries. Could I have asked for a female police photographer? Probably. If I was uncomfortable with the person who appeared, could I have asked for another instead? Probably. Would the GRA have had any impact on this? I honestly don't think so.

You completely belittle the experiences and opinions of others - @forfucksakenett has been quite open in saying she is in a quandary with it all yet you rip her to shreds and make really horrid comments like, 'Do you revel in the distress of women'?

Our views are as valid as anyone else's and they shouldn't be rubbished just because of who we may vote for in an election.

happygolurkey · 15/04/2021 18:28

the shift in what western countries are willing to sacrifice for the sake of males who don't want to be considered male is ever growing

I agree with a lot of your points on this issue TheShadowyFeminist. However, this is where I feel you are contradicting yourself in saying that the GRC issue is unique to Scottish politics when other countries have gone further along the path - Ireland for example and Canada.

I did spend several tedious hours filling out a reply to the Scottish consultation on this so I don't feel I'm just sounding off about something I don't really care about. (am hoping others here, like WouldBeGood who says they are 'disgusted' with SNP and The Greens about it did too.)

The sg could have just forged ahead with self id earlier but they paused and launched this new consultation (I'd be the first to admit the first one was an absolute joke). Shirley Anne Sommerville, I felt, did seem to be open to re-considering certain aspects and listening more to women with a view to getting more of a balance. So I am (maybe optimistically) hopeful.

happygolurkey · 15/04/2021 18:35

sorry StarryEyeSurprise. I was writing away as you posted so missed your important contribution till now.

yes, I agree, the tone here is very off putting and seems to jump to some very aggressive assumptions about people very quickly.

was also taken aback by TheShadowyFeminist comment about revelling in womens' distress. Quite revolting thing to say to anyone.

WouldBeGood · 15/04/2021 18:41

But it’s ok to accuse people of being happy to cause trans people distress?

TheShadowyFeminist · 15/04/2021 18:59

I think dismissing distress already explained is revelling in it, when that dismissal keeps getting repeated. So I think we're both equally revolted here.

If SNP stalwarts want to vote for Sturgeon/the SNP/GRA reform, nothing I say or post is going to convince otherwise. If people reading here & elsewhere either can't or won't see the implications of what's being pushed by Sturgeon/SNP re women's rights, again, nothing I've said is going to make a blind bit of difference in those circles.

As for belittling the views/experiences of others posting, that's gone on across several threads by those now claiming to be terribly offended by my posts. And in the interests of 'peace' I'll proceed to disengage with those who are so offended by me/my posts. It would be nice to think that would be reciprocated but I think it's been clear for several threads that the petty digs, smears, belittling & mischaracterising posts of others is a bit of a sport on these threads. It's quite a disingenuous 'protest'.

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forfucksakenett · 15/04/2021 19:02

@WouldBeGood

But it’s ok to accuse people of being happy to cause trans people distress?
Nobody said that though.
WouldBeGood · 15/04/2021 19:03

Agreed @TheShadowyFeminist

forfucksakenett · 15/04/2021 19:06

s for belittling the views/experiences of others posting, that's gone on across several threads by those now claiming to be terribly offended by my posts. And in the interests of 'peace' I'll proceed to disengage with those who are so offended by me/my posts. It would be nice to think that would be reciprocated but I think it's been clear for several threads that the petty digs, smears, belittling & mischaracterising posts of others is a bit of a sport on these threads. It's quite a disingenuous 'protest'.

No protest. No petty digs from me. Just an alternative view. I have no idea why these threads can never contain or explore contradictory opinions and alternative viewpoints. It's baffling.

SempreSuiGeneris · 15/04/2021 19:07

Does anyone actually think that self id won't be a thing everywhere in the western world in a few years?

I actually think the opposite although there could be a short transitional phase. Either gender will become such a non-issue that very few will care which they are or should be or there will be a reversal such that gender roles and norms become redefined by biology alone.

WouldBeGood · 15/04/2021 19:08

@SempreSuiGenerisI think the opposite too given that DS tells me it’s ludicrous and there’s a backlash on his SM. He’s 12

forfucksakenett · 15/04/2021 19:10

Interesting @SempreSuiGeneris it reminds me of that quote from Gregory's Girl. Can't remember exactly but something like in the future there will be no boys or girls. We'll just be a nation of wankers.