Yes but that's not the world we live in @TheShadowyFeminist. You can carry on with that type of speech if you like but all that's going to happen there is that you will be accused of misgendering people and branded a bigot. Are you scientifically correct? Yes you are. Are you socially correct? Maybe/ maybe not. Is this all a bit Kafkaesque? Absolutely. But the horse has bolted the stable door.
To be clear I do not fully agree with that but that is the world we are in. Every political party is accepting to some extent of the idea of self ID. One only has to glance across the number of people now with pronouns in their bios, linked ins and emails. I'm not sure where you work or what you do with your time but the number of folk now pushing the limits of gender identity in their every day dress, make up and behaviour is staggering.
Where are all the high profile feminists protecting these single sex spaces? I don't see them. JK Rowling has been branded a bigot. Caitlin Moran issued a grovelling apology after moaning about her womb (or similar - I can't exactly remember) and Judith butler et al are Twaw as far as I can see. Posie Parker, of course, but she's been completely sidelined as a bigot. If we rail against these issues using language such as this we will be similarly sidelined and dismissed.
I get that you want to protect single sex spaces and I see that you feel it very passionately. While I don't feel so strongly about these places because I believe we have largely shared them with transwomen for years I do feel strongly about protecting women's sport. I'm also uncomfortable with medical language changing. You are not going to do it as you are though because I would assume that in this woke world the way that you express yourself will be perceived as transphobic.
I think the greater problem that needs seriously dealt with is people like that horror you posted about. I genuinely cannot believe what I have read. They are not representative of any of the transwomen that I know. The fact that PH has validated this person is absolutely abhorrent and I sincerely hope that these tweets have been reported to the police. Has PH ever been asked about this? It genuinely makes me ill.
When I think of transwomen I get a picture in my head of someone I know. Someone genuine and someone lovely. It really is no wonder that if people are conflating transwomen with that creep that they are so angry and upset.
They are the problem. The strange fetishists and the TERF punching lunatics. The aggressive shouty 'call me ma'am' types.
Ordinary trans people are mostly just normal people trying to get on. The actions of some maniacs shouldn't impinge on that.