[quote kamalasshaman]**@HappierTimesAhead* @NotAnActualSheep* I am serious. It's not anti English to suggest that if you really hate Scotland just don't stay here. I'm curious as to why you do.
In reality there are many, many English people who live here and are made very welcome. In fact in some communities pretty much everyone is an English incomer.
You may want to think about the historical reasons why there may be anti English sentiment. The clearances after Culloden and the destruction of the Gaelic culture which some do consider to be a genocide might explain the strong feelings. The constant belittling of any good done by the Scottish government in the English media- not just the SNP, it was the same in the days of Jack McConnell. References to Jock and Och aye the noo, tight skinflints etc etc
Children belted for speaking Gaelic right up until the 70s.
The destruction of the Scottish steel and mining industry by English governments we didn't vote for. The poll tax implemented first in Scotland.
Some reasons
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I definitely haven't said that I hated Scotland. Quite the opposite. As I understand happier 's point, she doesn't either. But she hates, in her case, the general underlying anti Englishness that she comes across. In my case, I haven't experienced that, other than general good natured (and two way) teasing, though most of that is from my neighbour who's Welsh. (And I may have started that
). But I live in a large city with a lot of "English incomers" as you put it, as well as a lot of Welsh, Northern Irish, European, American, Australasian and Asian incomers. Its just not a "thing" in the community I live and socialise in, though I appreciate that's different elsewhere.
In any case, I just don't think it's acceptable to say the blame lies with the person being made to feel uncomfortable about their nationality and background. Of course happier could go elsewhere, but there is absolutely no reason why that would be what she wanted, just because some people are being twats and making her feel unwelcome. That is an outrageous suggestion and absolutely wouldn't be accepted about any other form of "teasing" that is only fun for one party.
I don't consider myself English, tbh, though I was born and grew up there. I've lived more than half my adult life in Scotland. I don't see why I can't consider myself British, or European, as I always have. And I know I'm to blame for many things, but I'm not sure even I can be held responsible for post-Culloden injustices, the English media or implementing the poll tax. A member of a 21st century, multicultural welcoming society can't really hold grudges like that and be expected to be let off, because "some reasons". Yes, those things were bad, like the slave trade was bad, and beating children for being left handed or communicating by BSL was bad, but those things aren't generally done any more, even by the English. You can't hold an entire nation responsible for those historical bad acts, though you can support or campaign for those affected by it, of course. But it's absolutely not a reason to make someone feel unwelcome in their home and claim that its their fault in the first place, and they should just leave.