Did I get my vibrator out too early?

[IvanaPavlov]

Had sex with my new boyf for the first time.

A bit of a mixed experience. He was very nervous and sturggled to keep it up but did get going in the end. Is that normal? I'm the first he's slept with since a long relationship has been over.

I also can't come without (a-hem) assistance of the battery operated variety so we used the vibrator. He seemed to like it...?

Now I'm a bit worried. I texted him earlier and haven't had a reply. We talked on the phone last night and I got the impression that he thought I was a bit wild! I'm really not... just know what I like. Is that ok, I wonder?

Yep.

some women do go through their whole life without the right sort of "attention" then, in that case

or more likely perhaps, they have have had some traumatic experience that makes it impossible for them mentally which is more what I was getting at, tbh

If someone didn't "give me a muff" the first time we did sex, I probably wouldn't see them again.

Yes AF and I agree. But it's a bit sad.

Lol @ Mark. My feelings exactly.

it is very sad, gay