Most the stuff I have read here posted by Polys is total crp. They are no more Polys than I am the next PM! Glad to see that the troll concerned was outed. Yes BTW most female polys are indeed bisexual so the poster who wrote that at least knew what they* were talking about!
I live in a four way poly relationship. No farm, no barns, no Dower house (WTF!!) just an ordinary Victorian house in the UK midlands.