ALL NEW Road to Recovery for the Recently Ditched No3

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Dearly Be-Chucked, we are gathered here today because, for whatever reason, our man has dumped us!

You're making me want a sing-along now Maybees. Maybees tomorrow night

Evening my fellow Dumplings, wow took me ages to catch up. Dc's only gone up awhile so couldn't log on.

Pink, I just broke my arse laughing at ex crashing, brilliant.

Maybees, am glad that you're begining to bounce back. I just love the "I'm fucking amazing & your not". Totally understand the urgent desire to shag someone else. I'd stayed loyally faithful to exh the first time we'd split & like you after I took him back it went to sh*te v quickly so ended up with a drought of sex for about 12mts. Puppy was handy indeed. I recommend puppy type shag buddy for healing purposes.

Happy, I thought OW was called Bumpkin ! Loved the horse joke & song. You're making me very about meet up.

Chairmum, enjoy your bus trip.

Tea, hope you're doing ok.

Scorps, likewise hope your doing ok.

Hope I haven't forgotten anyone.

Waves to all..........

Yes thought I might go online for farmer looking for "friendship" not less than 200acres

Still here, got distracted on other thread. Wish you were coming Maybees and Starting.

If you really can't then lets do a weekend meet up sometime and have a real quality time without being rushed. I'd LOVE to come and see a bit of country life in the summer. nite again.x

This place is SOOOOO adictive, I have real trouble leaving it.

Pink, I'd be happy to show you a bit of country life. Could possibly include an introduction to puppy if you were interested ........... Ah, poor puppy I've him advertised all over this thread & he's blissfully unaware!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

I'm not going anywhere unless I meet MD

It is Bumpkin Starting but I got the Horse idea recently too and just couldn't get the song out of my head.

Well Dumplings, I'm glad to report that I've had a bit of a breakthrough. It's like reality has finally set home. Being honest I'd always been holding on a bit to the idea that exh was the love of my life, that things were not really how I perceived them to be, that poor exh was just gone a bit off track, feeling heart broken for loss of love of my life etc..

Well, I've WOKE UP. Exh was a selfish, self centered asshole & I am lucky to be rid of him. I actually feel free for the first time ever. It's like I've suddenly realised was a horrible, useless fuckwit of a waste of space he is. I am feeling so happy to be rid of him. It's like I've just come out of a black hole & am ready to live again. I hope to christ this feeling doesn't pass because I'm feeling I've finally broke free from all the doubt, hurt, pain etc..

Only cloud on horizon is that my poor dc's have such a fuckwit of a father in their lives but I'll have to hand that one to god for now. Am still have in dread of court cases pending & how they might affect dc's but I'll get through them & I am now determined not to allow that fu*ker ruin anymore of my life.

Now feel back to my previous fabolous self. Am more of a dumpling again rather than a depressed duckling............Yippee

Maybees, my exh was the same as your's, no real joy over pg's, NEVER got up at night, moved to spare room so as not to be disturbed. Only ever changed a nappy on last dc!

Happy, MD could be difficult to set up ............are you sure you wouldn't settle for puppy

Now that did make me laugh Starting

Fabulosity regained!

I think a brief summary of the "MD affair" may be in order at some point. I'm not sure that the more fledgling Dumplings have been around that long

Perhaps something for us to cover on the thread one evening over a glass of wine.

And on that note btw, I have deleted my half-hearted dating site profiles - what a load of tw. I need quality.

Way to go Happy, quality over quantity everytime................Well depends I suppose but anyway there's got to be an easier way than truding through the rejected members of society to be found on dating sites..........

Sounds like a good nights entertainment...........You provide the music & I'll regale ye all with my MD & Puppy adventures...........

Am I the only woman with loose virtues on the thread or are the rest of ye just keeping mum??????????????

Am determined to complete operation house this time (Pink's mantra is constantly in my head........it need not be illusive...you can achieve this). Can't afford any distractions BUT when that is complete I think I may reward myself with a bunny type creature this time...............Someone who'll just hop in & out as I desire..................

Don't tell anyone but when I meet the others at the meet up I'll tap them for full details and then email a summary through to you later . No-one will ever know.

Off to bed now after a quick check on Style and Beauty.

Im all talk and not a lot of action but the thought is most definately there ...out of the frying pan into the fire ....burn baby burn....

Im determined to start operation house...Have you googled fly lady yet starting ?
Need calmness in my life v stressed out today

Congratulations on final stage twunt removal Starting .

Sending you serenity Maybees

I have googled fly lady but I'm liking Style and Beauty more - better for sh*ing?

I will stick with the Fly though. I know it makes sense and the mice have to go.

Nite x

Haven't had a look at the fly person yet.........am too busy with operation house & garden . Only joking, will give a look when I get a chance.

Maybees, remember golden rule, you are only allowed sex for now, casual shag buddy types, you'd be too raw for a relationship .

Happy, once I've got the details, I'll do a quick copy & paste. Name & shame publically so that I won't be the only trollop here

Maybees, I hope to god it really is the final twunt removal stage for me. Have been to hell & back over past 20mts & anyway can't afford the counselling anymore..........

I read a bit of fly lady then have a rest or a cup of tea.Pulled all the books off the book shelf have neat books (and large pile on the floor since tuesday)nite nite x

Happy - I dont have an email!!

Morning all

Oh poo Chair - I've messed up somewhere - no worries I will find out (what on earth) I've done and email you later (could be a while as I have to go out now). In any case, all is pretty much sorted and we will be scooping you up at a destination you have provided (am I Bond, James Bond?)

Morning all,

I have not been on this thread for a while, too busy trying to get deluded X to understand that no I don't love him and I certainly do not want him back. He still does not get it but I guess the non-molestation order will set that right.

Good news, I have met someone special, he adores me, thinks I am fabulous, is very supportive and great in bed to boot!

I think I may actually fall in love a teeny, tiny bit.

Hi Dutchy, so glad you came back to up-date us. Sorry to hear about your ex but the new guy sounds fab. You give hope to the rest of us dumplings, yipee..........

Weather here is fab. Am off to beach with dc's & dog..............Have done a frantic search for buckets & shovels etc & no joy.........

It was really unexpected to be honest, don't think he would be my type.

I did have my doubts as I was so scared of being hurt again but my therapist told me that he may be the best thing that happened to me, turns out to be right! (well, so far)

I really recommend counselling after coming out of a relationship, it was quite an eye opener!