OK, seeing as I was actually namechecked [preen?] I'll stick my furry little neck out here and suggest one other angle to this.
Women's relationship with sex/mating etc is primarily emotional. With Men it's mostly physical. They need the external stimulation, the physical stuff, where as we need to be mentally into it, mentally cherished and desired.
In the reversed scenario, a woman telling a bloke to move on, mostly he does. why, cos he'll just move to the next one he can find.
Think about it, how many threads are there where a bloke has dumped his gf, our OP, and she's left scratching her head and pouring out her heart to us saying... 10 years we were together, how can he just shack up with another woman in a fortnight?????
We on the other hand need time to work him out of our system, to de-bloke ourselves, lick our wounds and when recovered, back into the breach....
This woman, it appears, HAS been told. I'm in similar situation myself, with my DH, we spoke about it this afternoon in fact, she called again yesterday. He knows what will happen if he does answer, she'll scream and shout obscenities at her. This has been going around and around in circles for years.
Tell her please not to call you again, he said he HAD actually said this ( those exact words??? I think she said I'll never call you again if you don't call me back, he said OK, but that is by the by... I'll give him benefit of the doubt on it again..)
Some women get so emotionally attached, even after a short time, and they stick like glue to the object of their obsession, thinking it's the real thing....
BIGMAC, any chance you can change your number, my DH has talked about it, but he is trying to sell a property overseas and the contact telephone is his mobile number. He has said that once the flat is sold (In the summer we hope... anyone want a huge landmark apartment in posh Alexandria Egypt???) he will change his number.
Also, as hard as it's been to see the vociferousness of some of the more lively posts here, it should reinforce to you what is happening IS unfair on your relationship, and could be harming it.
If this woman IS stepping over the mark, then you know that perhaps you need to change the way things are, change your number, tell her again not to call you, and if need be talk to the phone company about blocking and contacting the police if necessary.
If this IS a wind up, , but if this has happened to me, it will and has happened to others, I hope that others might find some help/use in this thread.
groundhogs out.