can i get some un mumsnetty hugs and sympathy please

[Mamazonabroomstick]

think its all over with DP.

I am heartbroken.
I feel sick and just want to bursdt into tears.
Can't really be that open with rl friends as im the "strong one" that doesn't really get effected by this sort of stuff.

don#t get me wrong they know im hurting and they are sympathetic but all they keep saying is that i can do better.

Yes of course i can. but i didn't want to.

Its all just so horrible

Dont open the door, stick to your decsion, you know it is right for you.

He just wants to be seen as in the right when he is so wrong.

His abuse is no different than your first Ex, both of them have abused all trust you have, in all ways.

Stay strong. Don't put up with this shit. You and your DC deserve better.

Can we send Reality around with the Cock-Kickers?

mama, listen to ghoshe

Dont disappear Mama, are you Ok?

do not let him talk you out of this, please. You will be in the same boat again soon if you do.

Okay.

You have the whole of MN with you. (Apologies for presumption). Do not open the door. Just tell him it is over and it has ended, so what he wants no longer counts.

I totally understand the physical pain. Not so long ago I was sat in a car park breaking my heart over a toss pot and the pain was so real I thought I would die of a broken heart.

It does pass. You just have to be ready to be strong.

I'm really sorry.

I didn't realise it was your thread (the other one)

You will be OK.

Mamazon - let's be brutal - the pain is being caused because of the loss of the love of a man you THOUGHT you loved. Turns out, he wasn't that man at all. You are hurting for a man who never existed. You are mourning a make-believe love.

The reality is - he's a knob-end.

Oh, and I've seen your normal profile pic. I even commented on it a year or so back. You're fecking gorgeous and glamorous and even I wouldn't kick you out of bed for farting AND I'M STRAIGHT!

Wailingghose I am all teared up now. Such sadness but what a lovely outcome. Eventually good things do come to good people.

im still here. i have told him i wont let him in. he is out in the car texting me instead.

Oh Mamazon . DOn't let the inadequate little fucktard in. He's pissed on his chips forever by making it blindingly obvious that he regards you as a 'will-do-for-now' partner, which is a vile way to treat another human being.
There are lots of nice men out there and you are a babe, so there will be a nice decent (and fit) one for you soon.
Best of luck.

fucking hell

hug
squeeze hug

glass of vino??

What's he saying?

just repeaeting that he doesn;t undertsan why facebook have done that, that he hasn't added loads of women at all.
that he isn;t cheating and doesn;t want to cheat

not once has he said sorry

mama are you on FB? Do you want to chat?

Not one for hugs but I think this quote is appropriate: "Some people are like Slinkies. Not really good for much, but bring a smile to your face when pushed down the stairs"

Give him a push.

oh Mamazon >

Can you turn your phone off? Do you need to be reachable for any other reason.

I remember looking at your profile a while back and being utterly cause you are so fucking gorgeous.

He is the fuckwittest of all fuckwits.

Sorry to sound trite, but time really is a great healer, and all you can do is stand firm and let time do its thing. {{hug}}

im not asnwering. i replied that i've said all i need to

I'm lost for words, you poor poor darling

I would like to squeeze his bollocks until they pop out of his eyeballs- how DARE he treat you like this, what an utter knobber

Don't let him in- wait till we come to see you and there's an amazing painting of your beautiful gorgeousness that people pay to buy prints of- you will have your own fucking fanclub on facebook if you want one, with people queueing up to adore you, as they rightly should.

Don't cry. He is not worth your tears.

Mamazon,
I'm really sorry ((((((((hugs))))))))

You are a total beauty, he's an idiot to have fucked it up with you. I hope he regrets this forever.

If he can treat you the way he has, he's not the man you thought he was, and he's not the man for you.

((((((more hugs))))))

He doesn't understand why Facebook have done that

Well, even stretching the benefit of the doubt to it's out limits, it still doesn't explain the text about kissing the cousin between the two holes, does it!?

He's going for Fuck-wittery & under-estimating your intellect.

Phone off, shoulders back, tits out and head held high - he's not good enough for you and never was.

Stay strong- you deserve and will get so much more xxx