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Oral Sex - Personal and detailed.

149 replies

thisispersonal · 11/04/2005 10:36

This is a bit embarassing but feel like I want to chat about it. Have never been a big fan of the above but I feel I should do it as DH does it for me. I want to make him happy. I don't do it very often but he loves to do it for me. I either move away before ejaculation or run into the bathroom quick and spit it out. The other night for the first time ever I swallowed. It's making me feel ill just thinking about it now. I can't believe that I did it. DH finds it really sexy. Does anyone else go all the way like this. I know it sounds silly but I keep thinking I'm going to get pregnant like this - even though I have read everywhere that there is no way that you can.

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thisispersonal · 11/04/2005 21:49

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cod · 11/04/2005 21:50

Message withdrawn

HappyDaddy · 11/04/2005 21:54

cod, I too wonder if someone is using MN to get a cheap thrill? A bit late as I've answered already!

WideWebWitch · 11/04/2005 21:55

ha ha at ff. Yep Cod, I can't see there's a lot more to be said on the subject!

secretregular · 11/04/2005 22:00

Troll?

Gobbledigook · 11/04/2005 22:17

Well said Codster

JoolsToo · 11/04/2005 22:19

what's oral sex?

Gobbledigook · 11/04/2005 22:20

It's where you just chat about it isn't it?

Branster · 06/05/2005 10:09

i couldn't find the other funny thread on the subject so will put it on this one. look what i came accross on the internet

Eye contact looking into his eyes, while sucking his cock, watch his expression as the pleasure builds, it can put you on new level and remember men are visual creatures.

*Make sure your tongue is really wet and lick the entire shaft of his penis, and the ridge where the head joins the shaft, called the corona. This is the most sensitive part of his cock. Follow this ridge around to the underside. There's a juncture where the two ends come together. This tiny area is easily the most sensitive spot on his entire body. Just like your clitoris.

*To get your man excited, take his penis out of his pants or get him naked, and run your fingers very gently over the underside of his penis.

*If he?s not fully hard, start to run your tongue lightly over his cock and take it gently in your mouth, just like women, men take a little while to get aroused too.

*Breathe on his cock and blow gently with your hot breath.

*Gently rub his balls, don?t rub to hard , the testicles are very sensitive.

*Gently lick his scrotum or try drawing both of his balls in your mouth. Use one hand to circle the top of the scrotum, and gently pull it down bringing the balls together into a neat package that will fit into your mouth. Best position for this is if he is standing up, be careful not to scratch with your teeth and use your tongue to give his balls a good lashing.

*Use your hands on the penis too, using firm strokes will heighten the sensations and excite your partner even further.

Deep throat.
Some people have a more sensitive gag reflex than others, and not everyone can overcome that if you can?t, make up for it by using your hands. Whatever part of the penis you can?t take into your mouth, wrap your hand around it and simultaneously with your mouth, move you?re hand up and down. This way it will feel as though you?re taking in the whole penis, even though you?re not. I couldn?t deep throat, but after a lot of practice I learned the techniques.
First you take the penis as far as you can without gagging, then you close your eyes and concentrate, very slowly ease the penis in taking each quarter of a centimeter at a time, assuring yourself you won?t choke, until it?s all in. Once you have mastered this ability you?ll be able to do it as slow or as fast as you want, but don?t do it fast the first time, you definitely will gag.

*A blow-job is not just about putting a penis in your mouth and moving up and down, you need to use your tongue to stimulate the head as well.

*Alternate between sucking it and licking it.

*Remember there is a man on the end of that penis don?t just work the cock, look up and deeply kiss him.

*Talk to him, tell him how pleasurable sucking his cock his cock is. Tell him how good he tastes, tell him how much it turns you on.

*Tease him until he can?t stand it anymore anticipation is a great aphrodisiac.

*Get him naked and kiss and lick all the areas around his penis, don?t touch it. Lick and kiss his inner thighs, lick and kiss his balls. By that time he should be gagging, then start to go down on him.

*Simulate intercourse, with your hands slowly jerk him off but when your hand reaches the bottom of the shaft, take it into your mouth, roll your lips over your teeth and keep the opening firm, so it feels like his penis is entering a tight firm vagina. Then suck it, with hard deep sucks followed by quick light ones.

*At the same time rub the area, just behind his balls. Even though it?s close to his bottom, it produces powerful sensations.

*As you run your hands up and down his penis, squeeze it a little, just jerk the head softly, and be firm yet gentle.

elsmommy · 06/05/2005 10:11

I don't wanna know what you were looking at to "come accross it"

marthamoo · 06/05/2005 10:12

Oh Branster I could have done without all that at 10 in the morning.

BROWNY · 06/05/2005 10:15

OMG Branster!! I can't believe I'm reading this at THIS TIME OF THE MORNING!!

You've obviously put a lot of research into that - there should be a SEX HELP thread!! lol

I'm thinking of printing this off for DH to read ha ha!!!

lilsmum · 06/05/2005 10:18

eeewwww!!! sorry i clicked this thread now

DeadorAlive · 06/05/2005 10:45

Branster I'm impressed!

...where's a man when you need one...

Off for a drive...

sallystrawberry · 06/05/2005 10:46

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Branster · 06/05/2005 10:59

hee, hee!
found it last night and DH is away till tommorrow.
can you believe i actually can't wait for him to come back to try some of the advice on him??
and i thought i knew it all when it comes to bj!

Branster · 06/05/2005 11:05

i must add that the info was found on a rather respectable women's website.

Branster · 06/05/2005 11:06

i wonder how long it will take for HappyDaddy to find this thread !

Bugsy2 · 06/05/2005 11:12

Love giving bjs, think it is probably one of the nicest things you can do (sexually) for a man. I think it is is a mental thing, if you think of it as a bit "icky" then you are not going to enjoy doing it, if you think of it as something fun & enjoyable then that's exacly what it will be.

DeadorAlive · 06/05/2005 11:27

Another sex etiquette internet site had a question 'What to do with a mouthful of semen" and the reply was as follows (this is a student site but great reading!!) - pmsl when I read it -can just see the woman whirling round in a state!

"Returning the semen to its rightful owner is another option; you may want to talk this one over with your partner before your mouth is full. Lobbing his gob across the room with desperate spitting and hacking sounds is most certainly a no-no in any manners manual."

KISS MEEEE!!!!

stitch · 06/05/2005 11:33

oral sex? whats that?

DeadorAlive · 06/05/2005 11:38

...I'd never heard of anyone doing this personally (giving it back I mean) and would love to pop the question to those guys who DEMAND bjs and that you swallow to boot...I just don't imagine that many would be too excited about the prospect, which begs the question why should we!!!

Having said that, I agree that it is a lovely thing to do IF you WANT to do it, very sexy and only 6 calories per teaspoon...

sweetmonkey · 06/05/2005 11:41

a whole 6 calories??????

apparently the same amount of protein as a ham sandwich too.

(i dont like ham so i guess its my excuse to do it more) he he

TakeItUpTheArse · 06/05/2005 11:51

Oral sex for a man has to be one of the most pleasurable sexual experiences. Great tips from Branster btw - if you didn't know how to do it before, well you do now.

If you feel brave enough next time you are giving your man head and your man is scrupulously clean, then run your tongue under his balls and round to his arse : wow does this do something big time for my dp or what?

Gobbledigook · 06/05/2005 11:55

Own up, who are you TIUTA?