following on from the what are you good at thread - blowjobs

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Yes I know it has been done to death and I remember reading ExPat's tutorial on here once about the perfect BJ, but I can't find it now through search.

A couple of people on the what are you good at thread claimed to be especially skilled at blow jobs and I'm after a bit of advice. I am rubbish at them, I mean really awkward and bad. Please help. DH would be so happy if I could just get the technique right and neither of us has any experience with anyone else to bring to the disucssion (childhood sweethearts).

Please help and offer your hints and tips Thanks!

This is a very interesting thread!

My poor dp rarely gets BJs. The main reason I don't like them is that I have a weird jaw which clicks and locks and after a few minutes of a BJ it starts to hurt quite a lot. Also, come in my mouth makes me gag every time so I have to be very careful to direct it elsewhere!

The power thing is an issue as well as I feel very submissive while giving a BJ and thinking about that makes me a bit uncomfortable. Complete opposite to you lot!

hotcheesebuns - maybe you can start off giving him a lick and suck and then finish him off by hand and let him come over your breasts?

not meant to be a pervy reply - promise

yes but be careful it doesn't go in your eye...I had that once and then had to go to a uni lecture looking like I had bad hayfever in one eye!!!

Not a good look...

And did you let on what the real reason was...?

Oh no! Thing is, I'm deaf and I need to lipread...one eye lipreading is just hard bloody work!!

Welcome to Cumsnet newbies?

Oh I got it in my eye once, at first it was funny but then it started to really hurt! And I couldn't get it out! Never again.

spunk in the eye is never ever funny

I must be the only man in the world who thinks BJs are quite nice but isn't that fussed really. I much prefer giving pleasure to a woman "down there".

As a general rule though I think it is a physcholgical thing. The idea of it and seeing a woman enjoy it and just being abandoned to the whole sex act it of it is what does it for me.

this thread is making me gag
gross
yuck
vom

Oh FFs, grow up!

Just enjoy them and the power! And the look on his face!

There is no perfect BJ. Different men like it VERY differently. My DH likes deep throat, absolutely no hands and none of these gimmicks you lot are on about (mouthful of coke? My God!). Ask him to tell/show you and hopefully ENJOY it...