following on from the what are you good at thread - blowjobs

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Yes I know it has been done to death and I remember reading ExPat's tutorial on here once about the perfect BJ, but I can't find it now through search.

A couple of people on the what are you good at thread claimed to be especially skilled at blow jobs and I'm after a bit of advice. I am rubbish at them, I mean really awkward and bad. Please help. DH would be so happy if I could just get the technique right and neither of us has any experience with anyone else to bring to the disucssion (childhood sweethearts).

Please help and offer your hints and tips Thanks!

I don't always enjoy it but know it pays dividends in the bedroom

why dont you enjoy pd?
and yes pays dividends unless the bugger falls asleep
but hey if thats the case there's always the good old 69
but a bit too distracting lol!!

i don't do it. i think its disgusting.
how many women do this and hate it?

i would never do anything i didn't like, a good partner would understand.

Precisely, nobody should do anything in bed they don't like.

It's usually very enjoyable as it gets a good audience response but the absolute deal-breakers are:
It has to be clean
If it's part of a 69-type situation, it has to be in the dark (there is NO bigger turn-off than dh's nether regions from that angle)

(no offence, dh)

i totally agree
but like others i do like giving them

ummpphh... one of those, i really don't feel like,want to,should do really,if i have to, but i was comfy,just about to go to sleep.... How long you been with him?...

Right so you have a really nice.. Ice cream/ lolly pop that needs to be eaten/licked. GO.

nah!no longer need lights out..like to get them unawares lol!
and yes still enjoying it lots
but agree each to their own etc

I love doing it with the right partner. He should be a bit above average size, very clean and very responsive.

Do you like recieving oral? I know I do,after years of being self concious,I now can enjoy it

I don't like a cock shoved down my throat,but I give a blowjob on my terms,no thrusting or cumming in my mouth unless I say it's ok and I go at my pace.

I agree with the '69' idea.

I like receiving oral as part of it all but will admit to feeling a little self conscious/embarrassed.

who you talking to posh?
if to me asbm then yes love it lots
and as i said love giving blow jobs
and no man has ever tried to be...
or i'd kick him into touch lol!!

I bow out of the threesome, after being ignored, I will leave it to a twosome

A good few glasses of wine eve and a low light and don't be afraid to tell how and where you need it, it took me years to feel comfortable.. takes a few minutes now

threesomes are overrated

Go easy on me, I'm jacking in the fags!!!!!! help.

Re:69- I personally feel incapable of multi-tasking in this regard...I want to concentrate on the job in hand (or mouth), and would rather do one or the other. I have to feel quite relaxed to enjoy oral on me, and if I was otherwise engaged, it would feel a bit like someone tapping me on the shoulder while I was trying to read. Or is that just me?

er no
and i'm an expert multi tasker lol!!

at blonde,hehe

I don't like a 69, prefer he does it or I do, hate multi tasking, so over eatedxxx. Glad everyone agrees, and if you don't then don't even bother.

nite eve...

I'm with Custy on this

Nite posh not gone yet. xx