I have just shown this thread to DP.
He finds some of your attitudes towards men depressing in the extreme.
FWIW, I have been cheated on in the past BIG time. The man I was going to marry - we have to wedding booked and everything prepared. I found out a month before the wedding he had been shagging my "best friend" for months.
Do you know, they never met up late at night? They used to get together in the day while I was at work.
However, this has not stopped me from trusting others. I am not saying everyone should be like this because I know how hard it is. I am just saying that for every bastard who can't keep it in his pants, there are 20 (probably more) men who can.
A male faced with a female doesn't automatically want to shag her you know. They are not all sex maniacs who should get their nob chopped off before the ink is dry on their marriage certificates.
I find it very sad that some of you have such low opinions of men. Most of the men I know are lovely, faithful and respectful.
Going to someone's house for coffee after the pub in a group is not disrespectful to a partner.
Someone of this thread said something about most affairs happening in the workplace - how do you get round this one then? Do you stop your husband going to work in order for him to not be put in temptation's way? DP sits next to a really GORGEOUS woman at work. She is stunning. I am jealous of her (mainly because she is young and THIN ) Howvere, I trust that DP isn't having sexual intercourse with her over the watercooler.