twittering - I absolutely don't see it as scarlet woman behaviour. I don't make automatic assumptions of shagfest scenarios, flats, houses, or anything else (except in jest). I don't think the OP has anything to answer for and neither does the married man. I just think that we all have the right to run our relationships in the way that we feel is right for us without being criticised for it.
For me it is all a bit simpler. Some of us are cool with it and some of us aren't. Our reasons for being cool or not cool are endless and varied, therefor, to make judgements with limited knowledge (of those reasons good or bad) is, in my opinion, parochial. I totally understand the thread and quite frankly, even after your kind explanation, cannot see how the thread has descended into comments on being deserving of a vote or not....maybe a firmer argument could convince me, who knows? But, I do respect your opinion
Although I am shocked by some of the assumptions being made in some of the posts, this thread still makes very good reading (apart form the insults), it is obviously a very hot subject