Life360 Shows DH Spent 59 mins in Thai Massage

[Caramelsyrup]

As the title says. DH away abroad with some friends. Checked life 360 this morning and showed he had spent 59 minutes in a Thai massage place. Took all the screenshots and sent a friend. It’s not on Google but on street view with a number. It’s not looking good is it??

You’re not keeping up are you?

Another one not keeping up.

How do you extrapolate your theory from what the OP posted?
As for being ‘up early and sticking the boot in’ the OP was made at 9.38, you posted a couple of minutes later and I posted after you. 🤣🤣🤣

Don’t know why you put up with a guy like this - he’s got a a terrible history for this sort of thing 🚩🚩🚩🚩 I could never trust him so he’d have to go!

There is no man on Earth, on a “lads” weekend with his mates, drunk at 9pm who thinks, “you know what? What I’d really like now is a nice relaxing massage in between my 6th and 7th pint.”

Dear God!

Thanks for being on the ball with us all 😂😂

“Theory”? Keep up love

Side note but I want to hear how the Op came to fall out with all the other partners!!

Some Thai massage places are legitimate. Some are legitimate, but have a few dodgy staff that offer extras (the owners tend to turn a blind eye to this). Some massage places are much more dodgy.

Late night openings are consistent with massage places that offer extra services for men.

Dodgy places don't advertise their dodgy services online or over the phone because it will attract attention from police. So usually phoning the place is pointless... though you could ask a male friend to try phoning and ask about extras as there's nothing to lose, but in all probability they will just say "only massage."

If I wanted to know whether your DH may have gotten extras, I would Google the name of the massage place and browse "punter" forums to see if there are men posting online about getting extra services from that place (I see others have already suggested this). Use AI to translate if needed.

Though even if the place does provide extra services, that doesn't automatically mean your DH accepted the extras. So that part depends on how much you trust your husband.

I know. Just can’t work out how I managed to “extrapolate my theory” that he was banging harder than Bob the builders best hammer

😆😅😆 you tell 'em

And you’re still with him 🤷🏻‍♀️ Christ…

Op husband has form for strip clubs,London call girls on his laptop history and more besides.

I would assume he's had a happy ending massage at the very least given the location. Sorry op . Don't let him gaslight you into thinking otherwise and don't have sex with him. Get tested

I know that now - but the OP did a drip feed after saying they wouldn’t do a drip feed 🙄

Why are you tracking a grown adult?

Especially one that’s not even in the same country!

It doesn’t actually matter where he went or why.
The relationship is over.
Sort as much stuff out as you can whilst he is away.

Yikes! I've just come back from a 3-country trip in southeast Asia. DH and I had a massage almost every night after dinner. They were so cheap, our feet were sore from all the walking. Massage places were everywhere but the majority by far, were not the seedy type.

I totally understand your suspicion, but I would try not to jump to the worst conclusion without more to go on.

I haven’t heard from him at all today which is unusual. He’s not replied to my messages either.
as others have suggested if I ask his reaction tomorrow when he’s back and how the massage was and why he had it it will tell me all I need to know! 4 of them have gone - all early 50’s. I’m 10 years younger than him. DC are 17&12

You’re welcome 😁 Man sounds like an utter sleaze ball, in his 50s as well yuck, probably exploiting some girl young enough to be his daughter.

@Caramelsyrup it does not look good.

The question is, what are you going to do?

His past history should be enough for OP to go on. Man has form.

I'm sorry, but it sounds like he has form for covering up disloyal behaviour, hence you're air of resignation about the whole thing.

You need to decide what you want to do ... do you want to look the other way for the rest of your life as he does what he wants or do you want to move forward on your own?

Hey "Miranda" - viler than buying a woman as if she was an animal or object, and caring more about your right to jizz in/on her than her human rights or whether she's been trafficked?

As I said on a previous thread, it constantly amazes me the number of cool wives who have allowed themselves to be told that checking for evidence is morally worse that whatever a woman has been forced to look for evidence of.

I’m not sure what to do which is why I started this thread and to make matters worse we have a holiday booked next week!

This is your reminder that you don’t have to do anything now. I think, all things considered, you know exactly what’s happened here. That doesn’t mean you have to make any hasty moves. You can go on holiday, give the children a great time, create a false sense of security for him, find yourself a lawyer, get yourself legal advice, plan your next move from a position of being informed - and then confront him. You don’t owe him an ounce of honesty.