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Friend very nasty

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PerkyOchrePeer · 01/02/2026 22:07

In short ive not been well. Friend hadn't asked jiw i eas. I challenged her and she said she's been busy. I said nobody is too busy to say how are you. The. A few days later she said how are you the. A few weeks she suddenly blocked me on wassap. I was trying to phone her. Couldn't get through then she tried ringing me but I still wasn't well so couldn't answer as phone off. I wrote her a letter explaining its wasn't well etc and that I had been blocked suddenly I was unblocked from. Wassap and told her id written to her and she replied saying dont send stupid letters. All letters will be destroyed without reading and then she blocked me again. What a nasty person.

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ButterYellowFlowers · 11/05/2026 22:39

PerkyOchrePeer · 02/02/2026 15:41

No i wrote a nice polite letter saying I was unwell and what the hospital said. I would have messaged her to tell her but I was blocked. I ended by saying I wish she would nit get ill. I didn't have a go at her at all.

‘I hope you don’t get ill’ at the end of a letter describing your illness after she blocked you from contacting her…. Sounds like a threat not a well wish

CodeAmber · 12/05/2026 00:04

You again?!! You need to get off the internet and into therapy.

PerkyOchrePeer · 12/05/2026 01:57

I think you should look at your bullying strategies. I was not going to come back to this thred, but someone asked me a question. Im happier now ive blocked this person and am seeking better people to be around. People who respect me. I will not be partaking in this thread anymore. People om here are just bullies and if you dont fit in ypu get picked on

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TalkingShrub · 12/05/2026 09:51

PerkyOchrePeer · 11/05/2026 22:30

Maybe but she also blocked me so she can be considered childish The difference is that at least i am honest about it whereas she pretended her phone was broken or says she has no idea what's going on. People who deny blocking do it because they dont want a confrontation

And your life seems to involve one long confrontation. Honestly, @PerkyOchrePeer, what about just talking it out with a friend, if you've been friends for so long? Saying 'That was a bit patronising' and actually having a conversation? Rather than blocking, which is like a child taking her skipping rope home with her to make sure all the other eight year olds know she's annoyed?

tamade · 14/05/2026 06:43

Although the OP obviously has their issues and can be very frustrating she does get bullied via pile-on.

BlueSlate · 14/05/2026 06:58

tamade · 14/05/2026 06:43

Although the OP obviously has their issues and can be very frustrating she does get bullied via pile-on.

Given this poster has posted previously about similar friendship issues, it is possible that she seeks out this type of confrontation with people.

Some people thrive on feeling people are being unkind to them. It meets a need in them and if its not happening organically, they create it. It's a form of emotional self harm.

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