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Plus One wedding Issue

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libra89 · 21/06/2025 07:24

Hi my boyfriend has been to two weddings this year without me. He has said that in both wedding invitations that no plus ones are invited. I have been with him about a year now. I feel very left out because of this. Any advice what I should do. Thanks in advance

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BuckChuckets · 21/06/2025 20:29

libra89 · 21/06/2025 20:27

this is getting ridiculous now

'Getting'?

libra89 · 21/06/2025 20:29

BuckChuckets · 21/06/2025 20:29

'Getting'?

???

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MoistVonL · 21/06/2025 20:38

libra89 · 21/06/2025 20:25

You are taking all of this out of proportion. One or two nice people giving me friendly advice the others judging me by what I say

Everyone was trying to be nice and friendly and give you advice. Myself included. But you’ve been prickly and shut down at best.

libra89 · 21/06/2025 20:42

MoistVonL · 21/06/2025 20:38

Everyone was trying to be nice and friendly and give you advice. Myself included. But you’ve been prickly and shut down at best.

I just felt like everyone was ganging up on me and making me out like I’m a crazy person. I’m not. I deserve respect not someone to be critical of me

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Rathereasy · 21/06/2025 21:00

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libra89 · 21/06/2025 21:08

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What are you on about you don’t understand how I feel

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DontReplyIWillLie · 22/06/2025 03:14

libra89 · 21/06/2025 10:38

I know you didn’t mean it to sound harshly or blunt

Well maybe it did sound harsh. But come on - asking “How do I get over it?” when all that’s happened is a stranger hasn’t given your boyfriend a plus one to their wedding?

People need help getting over bereavements, or break-ups, or being sacked. This is a minor disappointment at best. A 35 year old woman should not be having a crisis over this.

Somewhat81 · 22/06/2025 06:32

This is a disturbing thread

jjpollypocket · 22/06/2025 20:53

My dp was invited to his friends wedding but I wasn’t (totally understand costs etc) but my dp politely declined so we’re now going to the night do. He said he’d never go somewhere I’m not invited to and neither would I tbh! We have been together years and have dc aswell though.

DontReplyIWillLie · 22/06/2025 21:00

He said he’d never go somewhere I’m not invited to and neither would I tbh!

How weird!

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