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Would a used condom still be wet one month later?

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Worriedsickhelpplease · 13/05/2025 20:45

Help I moved with my fiance to a new house about a year ago. He never sold our old house but some furniture is still there. We sometimes go to our old house after date night for some sexy time as our kids are being cared for at the new house. We have been together 20 years and its rare we use a condom. What i found by the bed in the corner on the floor was a condom still wet but appears no semen. I used a condom over a month ago with him. My question is i am not sure if this is out condom i found as im sure we tossed it. I am trying to find out if you think a month old condom used out of packaging would still feel wet and oily? The next day when he was at work i went back to th old house and went through the trash hoping to find a green condom wrapper from the one we had used, but it was not there. Since we no longer live there daily there is a huge cardboard box we use as the trash and its mainly just to toss junk mail or paper products. I have not used condom in so long i honestly dont remember if one would still feel wet and oily after one month out of the packaging..please help im so worried.

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bouquetofpeonies · 17/05/2025 19:28

Oh my dear :( I don't have any useful advice,I just wanted to say that I am thinking of you and wishing you courage. What an absolutely awful situation. I'm sure you realise it, but this man is no good and is not treating you well at all.

You deserve a peaceful and safe life <3

BringontheSunAgain · 17/05/2025 20:20

I never told my boss about what is happening because i feel like she may want to fire me.

Are you in the UK? Are you teaching in a state school?

Your 'boss' (Head teacher) can't fire you because of what's going on in your personal life as long as it's not illegal or a disciplinary issue. Getting rid of a teacher is a very long and complicated process.

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