What outcome would you want if your DH did this?

[Caughtup]

Posting for your opinions
Recently found out my DH has been going to naked nightclub, tantric workshops, plus had a sti check (clear) and equipped himself with comprehensive kit for safe sex.
He said he only danced with other women (naked) and did not do anything, but was prepared to it the opportunity was there
Described the tantric workshop as fully clothed and just hugging
He thinks I am being unreasonable not to want to work on our relationship and seek counselling ( which I previously had suggested and he declined)
At the moment, all I can feel is disgusted, revulsion and really insignificant
How would others feel if you are in my shoes?

I’d be wanted his testicles on a skewer so I could roast them on the bonfire of our marriage. However, divorce would be the least I’d expect.
Im sorry you have a cheating husband who thinks this is acceptable. Sounds like some kind of crisis that he will use as an excuse. He’s a toilet goblin. Take care of yourself

I don’t see how a naked nightclub where he just dances with other naked women is a release? Surely it’s bloody frustrating.

I find the whole thing perverse and seedy. I genuinely think I’d rather my DH have a quick shag with the office bike at the Christmas party. At least you can get your head round that. A fucking naked nightclub? Christ I bet you see some sights in there. I would just say this recent behaviour highlights just how different you are. Naked nightclubs and tantric workshops? Nah! Not for me.

Divorce and purely because he sounds like a weirdo !

I'd throw him out of the house.

There’d be no coming back from this for me.

What the actual fuck is a naked nightclub first of all?
And secondly, why do you want to go to them.
I'm sure you will get your answers in his response.
But yes, divorce.
There is no coming back from a man, a husband who wants this lifestyle unless you are into as well, if so crack on
No amount of him trying to normalise this would sway me from divorce.

I’m not surprised AT ALL to hear you’ve been turned off by this hideous person. Clearly your spider senses were right. Don’t let him gaslight you and tell you this is YOUR fault.

Your first post…’naked clubbing’ would have hade packing his bags. Let alone all the rest!

Naked nightclub? Is that a watered down name for a swingers club, because I’ve never heard of one.