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Have I done something drunk?

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Onslow1985 · 23/03/2025 17:35

I know this is a real wake up call to stop drinking but I just needed to mention on here for accountability. I went out for a friends 40th last night ended up at my local pub afterwards. Last ones in the pub with my friend who booked a taxi and somehow lost me in the pub, said I wasn’t in toilets and I can’t remember getting home. I don’t know if I’ve decided I was too drunk and left to walk home as I got home safe with all of my belongings and woke up fully clothed in bed. My husband was away for the night and he isn’t happy with me and rightly so. However I’m in panic mode that I don’t remember getting home at all and coming up with all sorts of scenarios, that I’ve ended up getting a lift off a random and inviting them in my house although there is nothing to suggest doing so. We weren’t talking to anybody in the pub and last ones in there. I’m really panicking! Don’t want to ask neighbour in case she’s seen something of these hopefully made up scenarios!

OP posts:
Blueskies3 · 02/04/2025 12:21

Op I have felt like you before. Now I don’t drink and it the best thing ever. Life is too short to feel like that. I hope you get your baby and find inner peace

Onslow1985 · 02/04/2025 12:25

Blueskies3 · 02/04/2025 12:21

Op I have felt like you before. Now I don’t drink and it the best thing ever. Life is too short to feel like that. I hope you get your baby and find inner peace

Thank you, I hope so too.
I need some reassurance from this situation and to address my mental health and anxiety first.

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DurinsBane · 25/09/2025 23:45

Onslow1985 · 02/04/2025 12:25

Thank you, I hope so too.
I need some reassurance from this situation and to address my mental health and anxiety first.

How has it all gone? Tests all clear? I realise it was months ago

Desmodici · 26/09/2025 07:43

Letmecallyouback · 23/03/2025 19:36

I find it near impossible to believe a person can function well enough to still get home but not remember a single thing? Nothing at all? How drunk were you?

Some people have blackouts on alcohol. It doesn't even need to be a vast amount.
I had ('had', as in sadly no longer with us) a friend who had blackouts. She wasn't a regular drinker, wouldn't drink to the point of vomiting, but when she did drink she often couldn't remember parts of the evening. I happen to read an article about it - it's just the way some human bodies respond to drink.

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