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Onestepatatime18 · 23/03/2025 09:21

Can someone please explain the following. I'm totally perplexed by a conversation I had with my sister last night. She told me in the past my niece in her 20s was 'dating' I assumed she had a boyfriend. Apparently not as later she said she was seeing someone,so again I assumed she had a boyfriend. I asked her how they were getting on. She replied as far as I know they're not boyfriend & girlfriend. He's a lovely guy but they're not exclusive. In my day that was called two timing each other. If I went on a date the guy was my boyfriend & I was his girlfriend until we decided if the relationship was working.We would never dream of sleeping with others while we were
'going out' together. There was none of this seeing more than one person at a time. The whole thing sounds so random. I believe there are people who are in their late 20s & even 30s who still speak like this. I'm just happy it wasn't the way when I was dating someone because I hate the concept.

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sammylady37 · 24/03/2025 18:41

StarlightLady · 24/03/2025 14:31

Has it not occurred to you that maybe, just maybe, he’s very good in bed?

Don’t be silly! Women don’t enjoy sex! It’s something they allow wealthy men with good prospects to do to them in exchange for a relationship, but when the relationship is not forthcoming they hang around in the vain hope it’ll happen one day whilst their relatives get all self-righteous on their behalf.

Onestepatatime18 · 24/03/2025 19:26

StarlightLady · 24/03/2025 18:36

OP, l am genuinely pleased that matters have been resolved.

But l do think it would have been better not to have drip fed the information and certainly not to criticise others who happily adopt a different viewpoint and lifestyle. There is no right way, it depends on the individual.

I agree. I felt stressed with the whole thing & hadn't intended to elaborate but sometimes that's just how it happens.

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