Curious - if you're married, do you celebrate valentines?

[Geordiebabe85]

Just that really, do married couples celebrate valentines day? When dating my dh always bought a card and a small gift but since we got married, nothing. Its literally a normal day. I used to buy him something small but I've now given up.
Just wondering if it's just us.

We do. DH always gets me a card and roses, I get him a card and chocolate. We go for lunch usually as dinner times always so busy and 3x the usual price😂

Nah.

Yes. We're as old as the hills but we get each other a card and DH bought me a box of chocolates.

100% this. I wish I could go back and tell my 20 year old self!

No. Don't even acknowledge it.

Yes, card, flowers, lunch out. Nothing too flashy but I like the sentiment.

As someone who used to work in restaurants, I refuse to go out for dinner on valentines day. It's always the worst atmosphere. I hated working on valentines day and I have never gone out for it.

We got a takeaway with the kids plus cards and champagne

TBF @CheeseWisely my 20 year old self dated musicians who were horribly unreliable. And never washed themselves, never mind pans. Married DH in my 30s (old and wise).

Well of course, and my DH does buy me flowers every single month on the same day of the month, has done since one month after our first date. He would also scrub cheese off a cast iron when it's not his turn, and is currently out picking up our takeaway in the cold, having taken my car so he can fill it up on the way as the fuel light came on today.

Doesn't mean he can't also buy me a Valentines card 🤷🏻‍♀️

No but l buy my Dds a present 🤣

No.

Nope. We had a brief conversation earlier in the week about whether we were bothering and the consensus was that we couldn’t be bothered 🤷‍♀️.

Funnily enough, my pan washing, self washing, flower buying DH is a musician I met him at 36.

In my 20s they were largely wankers, regardless of occupation

Nooooo.

 @CheeseWisely

Well done

Dh has given me flowers and a card on Valentine's ever since we started going out together. And ever since he moved in with me I have hidden chocolate hearts in his work bag for him to find during the day. Now that dh wfh I hide them in his shoes, slippers, headphones, coat pockets, wherever. He rarely finds them all on one day 😊

Yes most definitely do. DH and I don't like to miss any opportunity to be romantic. Been married over 30 yrs

We exchanged cards, DH bought me flowers and a lottery ticket! He wanted a take away but I cooked carbs as a treat!

we swap cards. Dh buys flowers. I cook a 'posh' meal. I use that term loosely...
We never eat out.

Make each other a card.

For nearly 30y. It's the single romantic bone in his body 😂

Yes as it’s the day we “got together” it’s a lot more low key now married with 2 kids and we do something bigger for our wedding anniversary but we will always celebrate it in some way or another x

Nope never did. It's another Clinton cards day and meaningless. In fact I detest it its so fake even when I was married.

We give a gift and a card and have a nice dinner (at home). Not a big deal but pleasant.

Cards, the cynical the better. 20 years in.