HE ASSUMED I COULDN'T GO

[Flowercandy]

Hi i been watching a streamer for about 6 months got to know everyone in his lives etc all his gifters and new gifters i also gift occasionally. He's set up a group meet for everyone. He assumed i couldn't make it due to living 3 and half hours away but also didn't invite me. Just said shame i couldn't go but i wasn't outright asked. Is this a excuse that he didn't want me going. However none of us live bu each other where all dotted around the UK. I found it weird that i wasn't asked even if i were to say i couldn't go.

@HeffalumpsAndWoozlesAreHoneyRobbingTwats this is genuinely my first time coming across an aggressive poster on here for no fucking reason whatsoever haha unless you are embarrassed about your "did ya aye" reply because it made no sense to say that when all I said was that I watched this geezer for 20 mins then gave my opinion on him lol, as if it was an outlandish far fetched thing to say and nobody would ever believe it lol.
Anyway I won't be fucking off but I will be keeping an eye out for more "did ya ayes" on other threads that you find unbelievable lol

From your 1st Thread: But he did say his vehicle costs 600 and all of his savings had been blown like maybe thinking I’d say I’ll pay it.

@Flowercandy, this man is slimy predator who is conning all of you. He knows exactly how to manipulate and hook lonely, insecure women who believe his sensitive, caring shtick and gain validation by pleasing him financially and sexually.

Do you see how he made his moves — acting so interested and caring —> complimenting your innocent photos —> flirting and asking to see more of your body in photos —> escalating to directing your video performance. This is not a ‘nice and lovely’ man, @Flowercandy. Your boundaries were weak and you degraded yourself for his gratification.

Regarding this parasite’s financial con, he manipulates his groupies to take responsibility for supporting and subsidizing his deadbeat ass, to their own detriment. You are so much in thrall to him that you handed over the money for your child’s food. He even sets up competitions and incentives: Whoever gives the most gets the chance to have day out with him! If you provide 2000 diamonds, your son will have a chance to interact with him about gaming! Your considering either of these options is chilling.

@Flowercandy, you must distance yourself from this scheming con who targets, dupes and abuses. Cut him off in every way possible. Anything less will be an exercise in harm to yourself and your son. Please get a referral for IC from your doctor or MIND worker. You need professional help to strengthen your boundaries and self-esteem.

Amazing!!

So much for your resolve not to watch. Delete the app and account.

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Hi OP, I have only read your comments, so forgive me if this has already been said, but your posts read like you are struggling with addiction, albeit an unusual one. You can contact a local addiction charity who might eb able to give you some support to keep your resolve.

Maybe try no. 3 again??
”LIMERENCE”

Oh yes he looks lovely and trustworthy. Definitely the kind of gentleman you would take home to meet your parents.

FFS. Your poor poor child.

@Shubbypubby

He's a very conventionally good looking, cool, stylish model who is obviously funny, very personable, very charming etc. why would he need a load of online hanger ons to be "friends" with?

Really....? 😂 We must be looking at different people.

And 'he's a 'model?!' 😆 Anyone can get a few photos taken of themselves, and say they're a model. And there is nothing 'cool or stylish' about him. He looks like a fool. And he is certainly not 'conventionally very good looking!'

He is a 5 out of 10 at best.

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@LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway

I thought the poster. who wrote this was being funny!

'He's a very conventionally good looking, cool, stylish model who is obviously funny, very personable, very charming etc. why would he need a load of online hanger ons to be "friends" with? '

I watched a few videos of him, he's a not the brightest spark, has a very low energy and zero charisma and whilst looks are subjective, isn't stand out attractive in any shape or form.

As for the spitting into the microphone making silly noises, that's just hysterical!

I might have forgiven the op if she were a teenager but she's apparently 35 so the who obsession with him is embarrassing and ridiculous. I'm cringing on her behalf.

Looking at this talented individual's Insta account, it seems he struggles to work out whether he lives in Los Angeles, or Lincoln. I mean, no difference really.

It's like a parallel universe, people sending money/gifts to these absolute randomers in the hope that what - they will get a wee shout out on their live stream? OP is clearly very vulnerable and obsessed with this guy - goodness knows why - but is HE really doing anything wrong here? It's not scamming or deceptive as the game is clear - pay me "gifts" and you'll get to be one of my favourites. Manipulative definitely, but illegal?

I seriously hope OP is taking on board ALL the comments about mental health support and counselling because her decision making is not normal - spending money on this loser which leaves her short for food, and the way she speaks she seriously seems to think she has some sort of meaningful relationship with him.

Appreciate it might not be clear on this one but on OP's other thread she mentioned he pressured her to send explicit photos and even perform sex acts on herself for him on a video call. She's clearly very vulnerable and him doing that is awful. She felt disgusted and confused afterwards.

I hope for her and her sons sake she gets some counselling to start healing from her previous real life relationship which was abusive. She is not currently safeguarding her son adequately.

OK I missed the bits about being pressured to perform sex acts. That's not OK.

Where's the DM when you need them. What a creep!

I was just thinking this!

OP there are endless ‘creators’ out there to watch, people who go live on TikTok etc all day, YouTube videos, streams, even start a new TV series. You need to break the habit, he’s using you.

He’s not your friend. This isn’t real. It’s all in your head that you have some kind of friendship or relationship and he’s using your delusions to grift money out of you. What you see on the screen isn’t real. What you hear on a call isn’t real. It’s all bullshit to keep you reeled in and giving him money. Get off the internet and get out in the real world. Make some real friends in person. This is majorly unhealthy. Seek therapy.

It's pointless suggesting anything as the OP doesn't want help. She isn't listening.

She needs proper real life help.

You don’t know this person or any of the people you’re talking to. You only know what they’re telling you. Do you have a neurodiverse condition?

You need to do more than just stopping going in, @Flowercandy - you need to block him everywhere and block the streaming site too, so you can't be tempted back in, as you were, only 2 minutes after posting this message.

You are addicted and any contact will prolong the attachment - like an alcoholic can't have just one drink, you can't have any contact whatsoever with this man.

OP when does your visitor from MIND next come to see you? You really need to tell them about this.

you need help.
you sound addicted to this kid.

Op, are you the one who believes she's the reincarnation of Cleopatra?

Is he due for a live this evening? Plan what to do at that time so you aren't tempted to watch him.

Sorry everyone went to funeral, yeah just had a bath and got belly upset due to the stresses of today o get bad ibs so just had bath and will probably relax put some pj's on and lay down in bed. I won't be going in to the live tonight

Please don't get sucked in again @Flowercandy . Peopel on here have only been speaking the truth because it's a really unhealthy situation and although you might not feel you deserve better than this, you really do.