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HE ASSUMED I COULDN'T GO

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Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 05:36

Hi i been watching a streamer for about 6 months got to know everyone in his lives etc all his gifters and new gifters i also gift occasionally. He's set up a group meet for everyone. He assumed i couldn't make it due to living 3 and half hours away but also didn't invite me. Just said shame i couldn't go but i wasn't outright asked. Is this a excuse that he didn't want me going. However none of us live bu each other where all dotted around the UK. I found it weird that i wasn't asked even if i were to say i couldn't go.

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murasaki · 21/01/2025 20:47

Differentstarts · 21/01/2025 20:46

How do you know if he's live or not if your not going on

Haha, exactly

Op, you are either very unwell or very stupid.

Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 20:48

He's live now and I've not gone in

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Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 20:49

The only reason i know is because i get notifications and im in bed watching films

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LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 21/01/2025 20:49

Differentstarts · 21/01/2025 20:46

How do you know if he's live or not if your not going on

Good question!

Seapow · 21/01/2025 20:50

Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 20:49

The only reason i know is because i get notifications and im in bed watching films

Uninstall the app and move on from this temptation.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 21/01/2025 20:52

Seapow · 21/01/2025 20:50

Uninstall the app and move on from this temptation.

She won't though.

Nchanged89 · 21/01/2025 20:57

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 21/01/2025 20:52

She won't though.

She definitely won't.

Differentstarts · 21/01/2025 20:57

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 21/01/2025 20:52

She won't though.

She will be already on there now licking his arse. Please say my name on your live, il give ya £50

CarliLove35 · 21/01/2025 21:04

Oh my god, I don’t know whether to laugh or cry at this thread. It’s disturbing on a personal level.

HeadacheEarthquake · 21/01/2025 21:07

Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 20:48

He's live now and I've not gone in

Good!

He's cringe and embarrassing and taking money from your son

Nanny0gg · 21/01/2025 21:12

Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 16:22

Yeah i don't gift much now only small and that's every now and then, you wouldn't believe the love he gets if you watched his live it's hard hearing that he's just out for money but i do see what everyone is saying hence i wrote on here

Do you want to keep your child?

Do you think that this obsession might lead to your losing him?

Fencehedge · 21/01/2025 21:12

Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 20:48

He's live now and I've not gone in

Well done. He doesn't deserve your attention x

Nanny0gg · 21/01/2025 21:13

Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 08:56

Im just not as gullible

You have to be joking

Or this is a wind-up

Nanny0gg · 21/01/2025 21:14

Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 20:02

No not putting anything up just to show if you have any reason to believe he is scamming or geaunine i don't luke him like that now just friends and obviously the circle of friend's in the stream

I also don't think you understand what a 'friend' is

And none of these people are friends

Coriol · 21/01/2025 21:17

Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 20:49

The only reason i know is because i get notifications and im in bed watching films

So disable notifications? Or uninstall the app?

Shubbypubby · 21/01/2025 21:19

All this gifting stuff is so weird. People are paying him for his attention and time. It doesn't sound much different to an Onlyfans but at least that's more honest in its intentions/it's clear what people are paying for. He's an online gigolo. OP you sound extremely vulnerable and so does your son. Please please tell someone in your real life- GP, support worker, social worker etc. you need protection and so does your son.

beenwhereyouare · 21/01/2025 21:20

Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 06:32

If it was About money he'd not of invited tje ones that don't gift

Sweetheart, you're still not LISTENING. It's ALL about the money. And you're still interacting.

He invited some people who don't gift much, but didn't invite you. It's not that he doesn't like or dislike you. It's nothing to do with that for ANY of you!

He did it this way for 3 reasons:

  1. The live and heavier gifters are flattered and will continue to gift him.
  2. He invited some of the people who don't give much so they'll also be flattered and will give him even more.
  3. He didn't invite you and others because he knows it will make you question why you were left out. He's depending on that rejection to trigger all the ones not invited to work harder to get his attention. Which means more diamonds for him!

PLEASE don't fall for this. He's basically a salesman. His "job" is offering attention for money. People who give are customers who buy his time, and ALL the gifters are paying his salary. These "events" are his way of earning bonuses. He's getting wealthy because his fans are letting him.

PLEASE use the fraud link someone sent you. PLEASE get help for what seems to be a growing addiction. You need support to help you see clearly, and practical help with how to stop. PLEASE take steps to recover. Your DC deserve your best MH, and SO DO YOU.
God bless💙

Shubbypubby · 21/01/2025 21:21

OP there are men out there who will manipulate you online to get access to your child- paedophiles. I'm not saying this man is one but you are extremely vulnerable to one of them grooming you and your child: if you can't think of your own safety, please think of your child.

Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 21:29

I know today is the day I stop going on x

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Shubbypubby · 21/01/2025 21:32

He's a very conventionally good looking, cool, stylish model who is obviously funny, very personable, very charming etc. why would he need a load of online hanger ons to be "friends" with? Come on OP, you can't really think he's interested in you & all the others as friends, let alone as anything more?

Shubbypubby · 21/01/2025 21:35

There are tons of similarly conventionally stunning Instagram model types liking his posts and he'll have loads of women fawning over him in real life.

Personally he makes my vag clamp shut in disgust but so many women will be chasing him.

HeffalumpsAndWoozlesAreHoneyRobbingTwats · 21/01/2025 21:39

Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 20:42

Not live yet but i won't be going on

He's live now. Dick is Live1! I'm not giving him any money tho. Jus seeing what my bbf friends are up 2

Ihopeithinkiknow · 21/01/2025 22:01

Well I have just watched 20 minutes of him because I honestly wanted to see what the fuss was about and he is trying so hard to be interested in what his fans are saying and keeps asking mundane questions lol he looks bored shitless and there's no conversation whatsoever and it honestly reminded me of myself when I'm forced to chat to someone on FaceTime when I just wish they would fuck off haha, saying that though I would talk shite for hours if whoever I was talking to was throwing money at me

HeffalumpsAndWoozlesAreHoneyRobbingTwats · 21/01/2025 22:03

Ihopeithinkiknow · 21/01/2025 22:01

Well I have just watched 20 minutes of him because I honestly wanted to see what the fuss was about and he is trying so hard to be interested in what his fans are saying and keeps asking mundane questions lol he looks bored shitless and there's no conversation whatsoever and it honestly reminded me of myself when I'm forced to chat to someone on FaceTime when I just wish they would fuck off haha, saying that though I would talk shite for hours if whoever I was talking to was throwing money at me

Did ye, aye?

Shubbypubby · 21/01/2025 22:07

Watched him on TikTok too. He sounds like a right boring dick. Women wetting their knickers in the comments sections too 🤮🤮

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