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HE ASSUMED I COULDN'T GO

660 replies

Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 05:36

Hi i been watching a streamer for about 6 months got to know everyone in his lives etc all his gifters and new gifters i also gift occasionally. He's set up a group meet for everyone. He assumed i couldn't make it due to living 3 and half hours away but also didn't invite me. Just said shame i couldn't go but i wasn't outright asked. Is this a excuse that he didn't want me going. However none of us live bu each other where all dotted around the UK. I found it weird that i wasn't asked even if i were to say i couldn't go.

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Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 18:12

I can't remove the picture i wanted to post it quick then delete it. No i don't want to out him at all as he's been so nice but yes ive been made to feel stupid at the same time

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Coriol · 21/01/2025 18:12

MurdoMunro · 21/01/2025 17:27

I think this thread might in some way be feeding whatever’s going on with the OP. Don’t get me wrong, I’m here too reading all her posts, it’s horrifying and fascinating. But I’m getting a feeling that we might not be the good guys by engaging in it - even though the advice is good, the words are all clear and correct we may not be of the same mindset and I’m not sure its hitting in the same way in the OPs head.

You’re right. She is getting off on talking about him, and we’re feeding it.

CleanShirt · 21/01/2025 18:13

A clever rouse for views?

TopshopCropTop · 21/01/2025 18:13

I cannot get my head around the fact there are multiple women spending every evening watching a grown man beat box on the internet and giving him money for it.

Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 18:14

NestaArcheron noway i just seen this im on my phone si the screen takes longer to scroll messages

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whathaveiforgotten · 21/01/2025 18:15

Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 18:12

I can't remove the picture i wanted to post it quick then delete it. No i don't want to out him at all as he's been so nice but yes ive been made to feel stupid at the same time

Nice? He persuaded you perform sexually on a video call to him while he watched. He's a fucking arsehole.

You mentioned you're not long out of an abusive relationship. You need some counselling urgently because your expectations of how men / friends behaved has been massively skewed and you're projecting all of your romantic / friendship needs onto this situation when none of it is authentic.

You felt dirty, disgusted and ashamed after that video call with him. You know why? Because you didn't really want to do it. He persuaded you. He is not your friend. He is not nice. He is someone who manipulates vulnerable women like you.

NestaArcheron · 21/01/2025 18:16

Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 18:14

NestaArcheron noway i just seen this im on my phone si the screen takes longer to scroll messages

That's actually not him in my inbox if that's him In the photos - but that goes to show how many of these men are out there trying it on. The details were so similar and the amount of men in my messages is sickening.
He doesn't care about you op, he just doesn't.

onwardsup4 · 21/01/2025 18:19

CleanShirt · 21/01/2025 18:13

A clever rouse for views?

God knows but OP isn't interacting with posters in a usual way and we've definitely been reeled in 😂
Just hope if it is real OP has taken some of the advice in or perhaps it's given others reading it something to think about

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 21/01/2025 18:20

Flowercandy · 21/01/2025 16:58

But he does nice things and talks about other people's life's and helps them etc its like you are not getting that part maybe the people in the chat

Because.
That.
Gets.
Him.
Money.

I hope to fuck there's someone who can step in for your child because you are too far gone.

AyrnotAir · 21/01/2025 18:26

CleanShirt · 21/01/2025 18:13

A clever rouse for views?

Not sure this thread will get him many new fans 😂 manipulating women in to sexting him and gifting him money instead of providing food for their children and offering to game with said child. Just makes us all see how much of creep he is with no morals. Hel be best boxing all the way to the bank op.

Nchanged89 · 21/01/2025 18:26

OP is on a massive windup, 2 threads and she's not listening to anyone.
Stop wasting your time replying to her.

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 21/01/2025 18:26

HeffalumpsAndWoozlesAreHoneyRobbingTwats · 21/01/2025 17:48

Bigo? BI GO? BIIIIGOOOO??? What the actual fuck a duck.

Fuck knows.

IHateBakedBeans · 21/01/2025 18:30

Nchanged89 · 21/01/2025 18:26

OP is on a massive windup, 2 threads and she's not listening to anyone.
Stop wasting your time replying to her.

This. Genuine or not this is ridiculous.

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 21/01/2025 18:30

Nchanged89 · 21/01/2025 18:26

OP is on a massive windup, 2 threads and she's not listening to anyone.
Stop wasting your time replying to her.

I genuinely hope it's bollocks because the alternative is a child going without because their mother is chucking money at virtual cock.

Nchanged89 · 21/01/2025 18:32

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 21/01/2025 18:30

I genuinely hope it's bollocks because the alternative is a child going without because their mother is chucking money at virtual cock.

I hope its not real either but it looks like it is.
The starting of 2 threads is giving her the attention she craves. She isn't going to listen to anyone's advice .

AyrnotAir · 21/01/2025 18:35

I've just looked at his Instagram and theres alot of thirsty women commenting on his posts and he replies to them all like he knows them and is friends with them "thanks for always showing up". I doubt very, very much you're the only one he's chatted too and got explicit pics from op. The guys making money out of being a thirst trap for naive, gullible women.

Differentstarts · 21/01/2025 18:38

AyrnotAir · 21/01/2025 18:35

I've just looked at his Instagram and theres alot of thirsty women commenting on his posts and he replies to them all like he knows them and is friends with them "thanks for always showing up". I doubt very, very much you're the only one he's chatted too and got explicit pics from op. The guys making money out of being a thirst trap for naive, gullible women.

Who is he?

Cornecopia · 21/01/2025 18:38

I’m hiding this post. OP you are a disgrace and I hope your child has a better life than what your giving him now.

Fawn87 · 21/01/2025 18:40

Actually now he's been outed without his knowledge so unable to defend himself, we should be aware that we only have OP's side of the story, which as she's obsessed with the guy, may not be fully accurate.

ThatsNotMyTeen · 21/01/2025 18:46

I can’t believe a grown woman with a child acts like this.

Give yourself a kick up the arse ffs

AyrnotAir · 21/01/2025 18:48

Fawn87 · 21/01/2025 18:40

Actually now he's been outed without his knowledge so unable to defend himself, we should be aware that we only have OP's side of the story, which as she's obsessed with the guy, may not be fully accurate.

Actually was thinking that myself after seeing all the comments on every post on his Instagram from lots of the same women who seem a bit obsessive about some random guy.

Ihopeithinkiknow · 21/01/2025 18:50

@CleanShirt lol if it is a clever rouse for views then it's a terrible way to go about it because I don't know about anyone else but I wouldn't want OP on my marketing team lol

TheGander · 21/01/2025 18:54

OP nice people do not sell their time to strangers and get intimate pictures off them. He might make you feel nice, but that is purely because it’s his job and so he can get money out of you. I wouldn’t be surprised if some of the other women on his site are accomplices who are on there ( probably paid by him ) to create a buzz and make him look good.

MyDeftDuck · 21/01/2025 18:56

HeffalumpsAndWoozlesAreHoneyRobbingTwats · 21/01/2025 07:45

It's a person who goes live on a social media channel and either plays a live video game or chats about some inane bollocks to encourage their fans/followers to send them gifts of money. They generally thank the naive sender and move on five seconds later to continue gaming/chatting inane bollocks.

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So, if myself and several other subscribers to MN set up a streaming group where we chat about our creaking joints, loss of libido, wrinkles, losing WFP, tax on our pensions, showcase our bunions/corn/skin tags, you would all find it SO entertaining and send us some money????? Bring it on!

Thought not 😂

murasaki · 21/01/2025 18:58

He looks revolting and like he needs a good scrub with bleach and a wire brush.