Sex for a year ehy won't he kiss me

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I already know the answer but I have been having sex with a guy for a year. He will not kiss me or touch my body. Literally afterwards throws a towel on me n I leave. I am ok with FWB but I feel shity everytime . He usually only last maybe 5 minutes.

He appears to be using your body to masturbate into. I would finish the 'relationship' and do some work on why this has been acceptable for a year.

That's not FWB or even FB.

You do need to stop yourself being used in this way.

That's not sex, he's just wanking into you.

Why are you having anything to do with him if it leaves you feeling shit?

Yuck. Sounds like he has issues.

This is one of the worst things I've ever read on MN.

Please end this arrangement immediately and have some therapy to come to terms with why you've allowed this to go on for so long.

Plesse end this. It isn’t even FWB, he is using your body.

This is awful... Stop this immediately.

Why would you do this?

He`s a fuck boy not a fwb there is a difference.

Please think better of yourself than this. It's revolting and abusive. Or if you're OK to continue at least charge the bastard for your services, as he's treating you like a prostitute.

Please explain the ‘benefits’ you think you’re getting from this so-called FWB situation?

Block him and get your bar out of the gutter.

Wtaf have I just read???

That sounds horrible. You deserve much more.

Wtf?

I mean my bar is maybe too high but come in OP, Satan's using your bar as a band leading beaten and twirling the fuck out of it.

Raise it up.

" I am ok with FWB but I feel shity everytime "

Sounds like you're NOT ok with FWB then.

He's treating you like a prostitute. Not surprised you feel shitty.

Bin him off.

This isn't FWB as he isn't your friend (friends don't wank into your body then throw you a towel to indicate you need to leave), and it doesn't appear there are any benefits for you.
Block him today. He does not give a fuck about you and you're hurting yourself every time that you let him do this.

I can't believe what I've just read! What on earth are you thinking?

This isn’t FWB as that involves treating each other as decent people who you have sex with. FWB is about having fun, where’s the fun in being fucked like a blow up doll then told to get out?

Hes treating you like an unpaid sex worker. You're nothing more than a cum vessel for him.

Honestly raise your bar out of the gutter and stop being fucked by a man who despises you.

I'm sure many of us here hope that you are also in a better relationship as well.
Please try harder to build your self esteem.
Is there a cultural aspect to his attitude?

why are you allowing yourself to be used like this? you do know you can say no, and that you deserve better than this?

It's terribly sad that you think so little of yourself.

OP you don't deserve to be treated like that by anybody. Make the decision today that this stops - it's not as if you're getting anything out of it! Block his number, block him on social media, and leave him in your past.

Then work on yourself and why you thought you deserved to be used like that for a year. Therapy would definitely benefit you.

I would avoid starting any relationships until you learn to love yourself, and recognise red flags and can set boundaries.

Good luck.

Ghastly treatment and lasts 5 minutes what could you possibly be getting out of this op ? Bin him !

Warms the heart to know romance isn't dead...

Sounds like he's used to using sex workers and probably addicted to porn too. You might as well start charging him money because this is not a relationship.