This is DARVO.
From wikipedia: DARVO (an acronym for "deny, attack, and reverse victim & offender") is a reaction that perpetrators of wrongdoing, such as sexual offenders, may display in response to being held accountable for their behavior. Some researchers indicate that it is a common manipulation strategy of psychological abusers.
He touches you and wakes you, because he cares more about his wants and needs than yours. When you react, perfectly normally by the way, he verbally attacks you and takes the role of the victim in going to the couch. The throwing stuff on the floor, damaging property is a huge red flag. He's saying look what you did, you made me so upset, and now you can tidy it too...it's a slippery slope to further abuse cos he's already set the scene that you are responsible for his lack of self control and anger.
You need to tell him that:
Regardless of his own preferences/need for sleep, you are not to be deliberately woken. (And recognise the red flag if he doesnt accept this, you have the right to state this and not be questioned or made to justify it).
He is responsible for his anger not you.
He should not be throwing things around carelessly or damaging things. No buts. Any buts = red flag.
He needs to tidy, make amends and replace damaged things. This is his responsibility.
It would take a sea of green flags, total acceptance of the above (including the fact that he is engaging in DARVO) to earn this guy a second chance,
I doubt this is the only evidence of abuse.