"Do they ever come back? Devastated. Following on. The endless winter continues.

[Pleasenotme]

Ok, so this is thread number three. I can hardly believe it, in fact I don't want to believe it. I don't want to be in this place, so bloody broken and - at times - on my knees with despair. This is the link to my previous rantings:
Do they ever come back? Devastated. Following on. Endless winter. | Mumsnet

Getting back together with him would be a big mistake. He's disrespectful and just nasty and would destroy her self esteem further.

@Pleasenotme how are you doing now?

Just came on to ask the same thing. I’ve been thinking about you and hoping you are ok.

Think of you often. I hope your life is better now.

I think about her literally every time I come on. I think a lot of us do. Hoping shes OK.

Every time see notification am hoping it’s our online friend back, will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and hope life and people are being kind to you and that you are kind and taking it easy on yourself too. 🤞🏻💕

I’m the same . Hoping she’s doing okay

Her pain was so raw and brutal that it sticks in my head so much. I do worry about her x

what happens to all these ladies....I hope they find at least new lease of life

Pleasenotme also writes eloquently and with insight- so much so that she had the usual dunderheads accusing her of “creative writing ✍️ “
Pleasenotme replied she wished it was mere fiction- ( this was in her first thread).

I too check back hoping she is ok.
Divorce and infidelity is painful on so many levels- especially when there are children, and also a beautiful home.
Please’s family home was very special to her -
Often when one sees those beautiful homes up for sale in Country Life it’s a divorce - ( according to an estate agent)

The size and value of lovely houses often makes it harder for a woman to buy out her errant husband ( let’s fact it, it’s usually men who are the greater earners in these situations, so the woman loses her marriage and her home.

Hopefully Please is surviving with the support of her adult children and she also has good long term friends.

Just adding my voice to all those who are hoping you are recovering from the grief and wishing you well. I also think about you and would love to hear that things are moving in the right direction for you. x

Op another thinking of you and rooting for you. Hope you are ok

@Pleasenotme I have been thinking of you this week. I hope you are well

Hoping OP is out there and will come back.

Another one wishing PNM the very best. Hope she updates us one day.

What did you say to DD? You need to reassure her that she doesn’t need to pass on messages unless she wants to, and that things will work out in the end.

Thinking of you pleasenotme and hope you are managing to take the necessary steps to your future happiness. Look after yourself.

@Pleasenotme still thinking about you and sending you healing thoughts.

Ditto @Pleasenotme hope you are in a better save.

It's May and everything is blossoming. Hope the day getting longer and brighter are helping you along. Thinking about you and hoping things have levelled out a bit.

are you ok OP? pls update us.....

Another one wishing you well

Fuck, what an eye opener. Do we ever really know or love another? I am so sorry to hear this is happening to you OP.

Thinking of you aswell OP.

I do hope the endless Winter has ended & Spring has arrived 💐

A week into August and I'm still hoping that you are healing and well x