"Do they ever come back? Devastated. Following on. The endless winter continues.

[Pleasenotme]

Ok, so this is thread number three. I can hardly believe it, in fact I don't want to believe it. I don't want to be in this place, so bloody broken and - at times - on my knees with despair. This is the link to my previous rantings:
Do they ever come back? Devastated. Following on. Endless winter. | Mumsnet

Thinking of you this Christmas OP.
We are all a group of strangers on the Internet from differents parts of the world and we never met you. But we all keep thinking of you and send you strength.
It will get easier after Christmas xx

Gosh OP, I'm rooting for you and hope you made it through Christmas ok.

How was your Christmas @Pleasenotme

Thinking of you Pleasenotme, sending you hugs.

I don’t think j the OP is coming back to the thread, sadly.

She may do. She did disappear for a while and came back before. I'm hoping she's ok.

I have been looking out for an update too. I really hope she's OK. She was in a very bad place mentally. If your reading this, I hope Christmas hasn't been too much of an ordeal for you. Sending very best wishes and hoping your 2025 will be a more peaceful one.🌹

Another one desperately hoping she’s getting there

OP we’re all with you. You can do this 💪

Maybe her husband has returned and the OP feels awkward about returning to the thread ?
I hope she is OK .

That is probably the best outcome as it was seemingly what OP wanted.

I just hope she’s OK ( Like many of us)

I wondered that too.

Yes I actually hope she is tbh as she really waited this. @Pleasenotme no one will judge, your life, your choice x

I hope not. He's a gaslighting bully she's better off without.

I highly doubt he’s back.

Pleasenotme..thinking of you especially tonight, {New Year's Eve} - it was on this very night years ago I was at my worst as DH moved in properly with OW.

Just hope you are OK.
You are an intelligent , sensitive woman, and the World is all the better for having you in it {in the words of the famous film!}

All the best 🌟 Your star will shine again.

@oakleaffy and @Pleasenotme sending you both a hug x

I hope life has found a new normal, dear poster or the husband has come back.

I hope he hasn't. He doesn't deserve her and he's an absolute rotter.

Pleasenotme I hope you are feeling stronger day by day. Wishing you well. xx

I really wish the OP would come back to the thread.

And sadly it will happen again..and again.

She won’t.

Wherever OP is, We wish her well.
She may not want to emotionally engage with her thread, as it’s a horrible time and very early days still .

Hi @Pleasenotme, I was just thinking about you. How are you doing now? Sending all good wishes for the new year.

She wanted hope. He is not coming back. She received compassion. May be she feels not needed to write here anymore