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"Do they ever come back? Devastated. Following on. The endless winter continues.

310 replies

Pleasenotme · 24/11/2024 23:18

Ok, so this is thread number three. I can hardly believe it, in fact I don't want to believe it. I don't want to be in this place, so bloody broken and - at times - on my knees with despair. This is the link to my previous rantings:
Do they ever come back? Devastated. Following on. Endless winter. | Mumsnet

Do they ever come back? Devastated. Following on. Endless winter. | Mumsnet

*Do they ever come back? Devastated. * *1000 replies* *Pleasenotme · 17/09/2024 16:25* Long time lurker, occasional poster, nc'd for this....

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/5170500-do-they-ever-come-back-devastated-following-on-endless-winter?page=1

OP posts:
SpryCat · 09/12/2024 21:04

I hope your ok @Pleasenotme x

Florawest · 11/12/2024 16:57

Thinking of you and hoping and praying you are doing ok small steps 🙏🏻❤️

Channellingsophistication · 12/12/2024 23:36

Thinking of you OP and truly hope you are ok. We are all rooting for you and sending strength.

HelenInHeels · 13/12/2024 08:20

I'm worried about her now!

LushLemonTart · 13/12/2024 09:28

HelenInHeels · 13/12/2024 08:20

I'm worried about her now!

I know it's been a while. Hope she's ok?

oakleaffy · 13/12/2024 10:02

I too hope OP is managing.
Pleasenotme knows this thread is here..She can come back if she wants to.

cjcghana · 13/12/2024 16:36

HelenInHeels · 13/12/2024 08:20

I'm worried about her now!

You're not the only one!

Washingupdone · 13/12/2024 18:45

Pleasenotme, is it tough time at the moment and I expect you are going through it as an empty shell feeling numb. I hope you have met up with friends to change your mind and treated yourself to things that please you.
Courage. [Flowers]

GigiGem · 13/12/2024 22:10

HelenInHeels · 13/12/2024 08:20

I'm worried about her now!

Same ! She’s been on my mind the last few days . Hope she’s doing ok

Florawest · 15/12/2024 09:47

Please God she is just taking time for herself and is doing fairly good, I eagerly look at the threads when I see new post added, its a tough time and prob Christmas makes things harder when everyone is supposed to be loved up, coupled up etc but as a lot of us well know what we see on the outside doesn’t reflect on the inside ( happening at home) at all..

Sending prayers and kind thoughts of strength, love and hope to each and everyone.

oakleaffy · 15/12/2024 15:34

Thinking of you as well, Pleasenotme- I know from experience how painful Christmas can be {My ex left at Christmas} it's a hard time.

Obviously it's hit you hard, with the thought of losing your Home as well.

Hope you are just keeping your head down and trying to 'recover', but that takes time.

Foreigners88 · 15/12/2024 21:24

How are you ?

Seymour5 · 16/12/2024 06:49

@Pleasenotme lots of concern here for you. 🙏🏼

oakleaffy · 19/12/2024 11:26

Another who is hoping Pleasenotme is still clinging on.
Definitely think of her at this deepest, darkest time of year.
( Northern hemisphere at least) 🌟

Foreigners88 · 19/12/2024 12:47

Hail Mary, full of grace, help the poster see Our Lord's light clearly this season and be given new lease of life, strength and faith to forge a new path in life

PeggyMitchellsCameo · 19/12/2024 13:28

I hope @Pleasenotme is surrounded by the love of her DC and friends this Christmas. She has been very very and open with her posts, and I hope 2025 allows her some more peace and freedom.

LivelyMintViper · 19/12/2024 14:56

Bless you OP, sending hugs, prayers and strength

Washingupdone · 20/12/2024 11:06

I hope things are getting better for you Pleasenotme and that you have been able to get to the hairdresser and have had time for a facial and massage, looking good can give someone positive vibes.
Sending hugs Flowers.

Fannyfiggs · 21/12/2024 15:49

@Pleasenotme Like many PP I've been thinking about you and hope you're doing okay ❤️

Buddhalover · 21/12/2024 23:10

Lots of support on here for you hun, keep the faith, all will be well. Stay strong, stay safe. Come back if and when you are ready.🙏

Plastictrees · 22/12/2024 10:13

Also sending strength your way OP. I hope you are being kind to yourself. This Christmas will be hard. But you have such brilliant, warm and delightful Christmases to come - believe this.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 23/12/2024 22:58

Thinking of you this Christmas.

Channellingsophistication · 24/12/2024 08:58

Thinking of you and know Christmas will be difficult. My marriage broke up at Christmas and it was hard.

However winter will give way to spring and I hope that you will start to feel better as we go into 2025. Sending lots of strength and hoping the love of your children will get you through.

TooManyBloodyMarys · 24/12/2024 12:32

Hoping that you have some peace this Christmas and that 2025 is easier.

chaosmaker · 24/12/2024 13:51

Sending you love and hoping that you are getting stronger each day and not needing the thread so much. x