Should I tell his wife?

[Unicornsfordays]

Not a huge deal, but a random guy messaged me on Facebook this evening wanting ‘sex chat and to swap pictures’.

He sent me unsolicited dick pics and wanted me to send pictures of me. I literally barely said anything apart from to ask what he wanted (given I didn’t know him). His profile picture was of him and his wife.

It took me two minutes to find her, and I called him out straight away and he blocked me.

He wasn’t ‘cheating’ in a serious sense, but I am so sick of men and the disrespect. It’s just gross. Does his wife deserve to know? I don’t know her. They have kids. My general feeling is everyone has the right to the truth, but I don’t know if it’s just mean.

Do I message her and let her know what an arse her husband is or is ignorance bliss?

You can set it to friends only, obviously yours is set to friends of friends - which could entail a lot of people you don't know.

Yes but if you are hijacked anyone can post what they like by using someone else’s identity.

Well the police called me today - not sure if they will take it further but at least they have recorded it and taken it seriously!

wife hasn’t seen my message so no drama on that front!

Nevermind telling his wife, I'd be contacting the police on account of the unsolicited indecent images.

literally did not read my last post 😂

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I'm glad to read your update @Unicornsfordays , hopefully something will come of it.

I'm a wife I'd like to know, with evidence tho- can you send her the pic and ask her to tell him not to send any more?

I already did tell her with evidence - I had to censor the pictures so I was also committing a crime!

he has also been reported to police.